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My Biggest Sacrifice

March 16, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Lent, Prayer

In case you didn’t know, Lent is my favorite time of year.  I joyfully embrace the cross and yearn to grow closer to Him.  Dad and I prepare a personal Lenten program for ourselves and for our family.  We help the children with their personal Lenten programs.  We also create marital Lenten program.  It sounds like a lot but, really, we keep it simple.

Dad and I serve as each other’s spiritual advisor – to become ONE in Christ.  Our marital Lenten program varies every year with the exception of one element that remains the same on a yearly basis.  We’ve agreed to select a sacrifice for one another.  It is often my biggest sacrifice.  Here are the parameters:

  1. Take time away from home to finalize all Lenten programs and seek direction.  This is usually done on a date walk.*
  2. Start the discussion with a prayer.
  3. Tell the other what item you would like to see him work on/sacrifice for Lent.
    • only one sacrifice can be set
    • be specific
    • give an example
    • there can be no refuting the sacrifice chosen
    • arguing is NOT allowed
  4. Close the discussion with a prayer.
  5. Pray daily for one another.
  6. Repeat steps 1-4 as a follow-up on a weekly basis or daily if needed.

*We invented date walks several years ago when getting away for a date night was not possible.  The walks can last no longer than 45min and no kids are allowed.  They are great for our physical, emotional and spiritual health.

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High school sweet hearts 

Dad and I back in high school.

Married Couple’s Prayer to the Sacred Heart

O most Sacred Heart of Jesus, King and center of all hearts, dwell in our hearts and be our King; grant us by Your grace to love each other truly and chastely, even as You have loved Your spotless Bride, the Church, and have given Yourself up for her.

Bestow upon us that mutual love and Christian forbearance which are so highly acceptable in Your sight, and a mutual patience in bearing each other’s defects; for we are certain that no living creature is free from them. Do not permit even the slightest defect to mar that full and gentle harmony of spirit, the foundation of the mutual assistance in the many and varied hardships of life, that is the end for which woman was created and united inseparably to her husband.

O Lord God, grant that between us there may reign a perpetual holy rivalry toward a life perfectly Christian, by virtue of which there may shine forth more and more clearly the divine image of Your mystic union with Your Holy Church, as You have deigned to imprint it upon us on the auspicious day of our being made one.

Grant, we beseech You, that our good example of Christian living may serve as a powerful inspiration to our children to conform their own lives to Your holy law; and finally, after this exile may we ascend into heaven, where by the help of Your grace, for which we earnestly pray, we may merit to be joined with our children forever and praise and bless You through everlasting ages, Amen.

Prayer Source: Family for Families, The by Francis L. Filas, S.J., The Bruce Publishing Company, Milwaukee, Wisconsin, 1947

Counsels of Perfection for CHRISTIAN MOTHERS

March 16, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Book Review, Meditation, Motherhood

“My God, what will happen to me today, I do not know; but I do know that nothing will happen to me which Thou hast not foreseen and ordained for my greater good.  I accept, then, Thy thrice holy will; I submit myself to it, and desire to delight in it despite all the revolts of my reason, and the repugnances of my nature.” ~ Monsignor P. Lejeun encourages all to recite this morning prayer of Mme. Elizabeth, daughter of a king, and sister of Louis XVI.
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I found this gem last year at my parish’s used book sale.  I spotted it from afar.  I was beyond excited when I saw the price tag of $0.50.  Yet, I will still a bit apprehensive.  I only had $3 cash to spend and I questioned the book’s orthodoxy, given that it was in the used book sale.  I mean, really, if the book was helpful, why was it up for sale.  Just then Mary, a wonderful veteran homeschooling mom of 11 kids stopped me to say, “Lena, I have that book.  It’s wonderful.  I’m currently re-reading it and have it by my bedside.”  That was it, Our Blessed Mother spoke to me through her chosen one, Mary.  

Ad Jesum per Mariam ~ To Jesus through Mary

I haven’t put the book down since and I can’t stop sharing it with others.  I recommend this book to all mothers.  It is packed with precise direction and meditations that seem to be a personal prescription for all my needs.
Here are excerpts taken from Monsignor P. Lejeun’s Counsels of Perfection for CHRISTIAN MOTHERS.

Chapter  II – A CATALOGUE OF SOULS.
What is the state of my soul?  What place do I occupy, with regard to God, in the great family of Christian souls?  These, my daughters, are questions to which you must not be indifferent.  In order to furnish you with the elements of a response to these questions, I intend to draw up a catalogue of souls which will enable you to determine to what category you belong.  My purpose, I must avow, is not solely to satisfy your curiosity.  When you know just where your place is in this catalogue you should aspire to a higher degree of excellence in the hierarchy of souls.  It is my purpose to guide you in your upward march, to point out the halting-places along the way, and to indicate the means by which you can arrive most quickly and most surely at the coveted goal.
Chapter  V – THE NEED OF A RULE OF LIFE.
Let me call your attention to the advantages of a rule of life.  First, it saves you from yourselves, so to speak; from the spirit of caprice which finds its way so easily into your actions, and robs you of the greater part of your merit.  We all are tempted to do only what pleases us, and to avoid sacrifices as much as possible.  An act needs but to take on the appearance of duty to become an object of aversion to us.  The result is that unless you are bound by a rule, your lives will drift unceasingly; they will float along guided only by caprice, and the sense of duty will be almost entirely lost.  In that case it is your own will that you have followed from morning until evening, and not the will of God…..Here is another article that ought to find its place in your rule:  morning and evening prayers should be said kneeling.  Moreover, there is hardly one among you who cannot spend a quarter of an hour each day in spiritual reading.  You should have a special article binding you to that.  Those of you who have the time, and who are unwilling to be satisfied with merely earthly piety, ought to take measures to make a meditation every morning, and also to attend Holy Mass each day, or at least several times during the week

I was sad to learn that this gem is out of print and copies are going for $90+ on Amazon.  My sadness was short lived, I found a PDF copy of the book.  Here is the link to the online book of  Counsels of Perfection for CHRISTIAN MOTHERS.

I urge you to read this gem if you are on the journey of perfection.

**UPDATE**
Here is an updated the link to the online book version. 

There is also a site that offers MP3 audio of the book, JMJsite.

COUNSELS OF PERFECTION FOR CHRISTIAN MOTHERS.  Order No. 12. Father P. Lejuene explains in very practical ways what real Christian Perfection is.  He goes through the various Spiritual Exercises, and explains how to derive the most benefit from them.  He addresses his book to Christian Mothers, but it is very beneficial to all.  Imprimatur 1913.  Three Tapes read by MH. 
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Perfection is accomplishing the will of God in a constant and generous fashion. 
~ Monsignor P. Lejeun, Counsels of Perfection for CHRISTIAN MOTHERS

St. Frances Xavier Cabrini

March 15, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: 11 November, 11 November Saints, 12 December, 12 December Saints, St. Frances Xavier Cabrini Leave a Comment

We must pray without tiring, for the salvation of mankind does not depend upon material success . . . but on Jesus alone.  –St. Frances Xavier Cabrini

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Traditional Calendar December 22

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A PRAYER FOR PEACE OF MIND by Saint Frances Xavier Cabrini

FORTIFY me with the grace of Your Holy Spirit and give Your peace to my soul that I may be free from all needless anxiety, solicitude and worry. Help me to desire always that which is pleasing and acceptable to You so that Your will may be my will.

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St Frances Xavier Cabrini

Patron: hospital administrators; immigrants; orphans.

Symbols: ship; heart; book.

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  RESOURCES:

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  • Foot Steps of American Saints – St. Frances Xavier Cabrini Activities
  • St Francis Xavier Cabrini for Families – Domestic Church
  • St. Francis Xavier Cabrini Printable Saint Card – That Resource Site
  • Little Rosary Of Saint Frances Xavier Cabrini
  • Mother Cabrini’s Life Story – Missionary Sisters of the Sacred Heart
  • St. Francis Xavier Cabrini Photo Album
  • Daffodil Coloring Page – the flower that coordinates with industry as prescribed by Father Lasance.

Shh! Don’t tell the kids…

March 15, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Lent, Mardi Gras, Pre-Lent, Shrove Tuesday

Dad and I have a secret from Shrove Tuesday.  We had an after hours treat.

I bought these to make for Rose’s party.

3.8 coffee mix

We decided to try them since they were on clearance at Costco.  They’re delicious.

I’m not a coffee drinker but I do enjoy an occasional caramel frappuccino.  Dad loves anything with sugar and caffeine.

3.8 mom and dad's shrove tue treat(I’m posting this pic as a Lenten exercise in humility.)

We made ourselves a farewell drink to bring in my favorite season of the year, the Lenten season.  It was our carnival.

Carnival is from the Latin Carnevale or “farewell to meat”, and it is a time of joyful feasting and fun. The practice of celebrating carnival probably began in ancient times when the Sunday a week before the beginning of Lent was called Dominica Carnevala, or “farewell to meat Sunday” — referring to the Lenten fast from meat and animal products…~ Women for Faith & Family, The Observance of Lent – Part I

The cappuccino mixes now sit on the counter to tempt dad.  As for me, I got my fix.  I’ll see how long it lasts.

I said good-bye to all drinks that are not clear and tasteless – I’m only drinking water.  I have to get creative with fasting since I’m nursing and have a dispensation from adhering to the laws of fasting.

ALL FOR!

SIMPLIFY

March 15, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Lent, Organization Leave a Comment

“Take care to guard against all greed, for though one may be rich, one’s life does not consist of possessions.” ~ Luke 13:15

Simplifying is a constant theme in my family’s journey.

Simplify is another prompting from the Holy Ghost that has been placed on our hearts.  We are a work in progress but definitely feel the call to SIMPLIFY in ALL areas of our lives – words, material possessions, food, extracurricular activities, spiritual practices……to better follow Him.

Simplify~Repair~Love

In the past years, I’ve followed the  Archdiocese of Cincinnati – 40days 40bags.  I was introduced to this great Lenten challenge by Jessica.

I wanted to step it up this Lent.  A couple of friends and I are following the Simple Mom’s Project Simplify.  I’ve been following Tsh throughout the year via her site and book, Organized Simplicity.

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I’m also slowly digesting Addicted to Stuff! to help me in my efforts.  I pray for perseverance and resolve to gain the order that God wills for my family.

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We call races and generations Houses; and the Hebrews were wont to speak of the birth of children as “the building up of the house;” as it is written of the Jewish midwives in Egypt, that the Lord “made them houses;”  Exod. i. 21. whereby we learn that a good house is not reared so much by the accumulation of worldly goods, as by the bringing up of children in the ways of holiness and of God; and to this end no labour or trouble must be spared, for children are the crown of their parents. ~ St. Francis de Sales, Introduction to the Devout Life (3.38)

I may post pictures of this journey if I’m up for the exercise in humility.

O most Blessed Virgin Mary, help me!

Ad Jesum per Mariam

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Additional Resources:

  • Like Mother and Daughter  – Organizing tips.  Be sure to check out A Pep Talk for Organization.
  • Fasting From Our Clutter – Reflect on clearing clutter from your life this season of Lent. This update offers ways to fast from our personal habits, the clutter in our homes, our spiritual clutter and the confusion of our culture as we prepare for Easter.
  • Smart Martha – For mothers who want to learn how to work smarter and not harder; who want to take time to refocus and get their home life in order; and for mothers who may simply need some inspiration in this tiresome task of managing a home.
  • iHeart Organizing – Jen offers free organization printables, resources and printables.
  • The Idea Room – Organizing tips and inspiration (an organizer’s eye candy).

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Prayer for the Home
Visit, we beseech Thee, O Lord, this dwelling, and drive far from it all snares of the enemy; let Thy holy Angels dwell herein, to preserve us in peace; and let Thy blessing be upon us forever. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Daily Meditations

March 14, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Lent, Meditation

Here is a wonderful FREE resource that can be used during Lent and all year long.  I forgot to list this resource in my Lenten post. 

You can read the meditations on Colleen Hammond’s site or subscribe to the email loop.

This meditation comes from a set of books written in the 1800s by Fr. M. Hamon. They have been out of print for over 100 years.

Today’s meditation is on the Three Temptations of Jesus in the Desert.

Summary of Today’s Meditation

We will meditate today upon the three temptations of Jesus in the desert, that is to say: first, an excessive care of the body and of health: second, the self-love which presumes upon itself and desires to attract notice; third, ambition and self-seeking. We will then make the resolution: first, to avoid excessive delicacy in the care of our body; second, to seek God only in all things. Our spiritual nosegay shall be the advice of the apostle St. James: “Resist the devil and he will fly from you.” (James 4:7)

Pre-Lenten Recap

March 14, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: GFG, Lent, Mardis Gras, Picture Recap, Pre-Lent, Shrove Tuesday

pre-lenten cleaning dragonfly with dad
3.1 – Dad and Dragonfly getting their pre-Lenten cleaning on.
papi the beaver taking a break 3.1
3.1- Papi the beaver and the girls taking a break from cleaning.  They’ll try anything to get out of cleaning.
3.8 – Shrove Tuesday
shrove tues visit to the elderly 3.8
A dear friend helped us start this tradition.  Several years ago, Tiffany coordinated a group of families to visit the elderly bearing Mardi Gras jewels and wearing silly hats, all to share our joy.  We adopted the simple act of almsgiving and now make a regular visit to the elderly on Shrove Tuesday/Mardi Gras.  It is a lovely way to enter the Lenten season.
It has to be experienced to be fully believed, but there is a great blessing on such a Carnival time, shared in a family. To have spent a good Carnival will finally prove to the greater honor and glory of God, in enabling us to spend a good Lent!
Activity Source: Around the Year with the Trapp Family by Maria Augusta Trapp, Pantheon Books Inc., New York, New York, 1955
We try to coordinate with other families but we’re not always able to gather a group.  The morning starts with Mass and ends with a play date and feast in the park.  This year, my nieces and Dragonfly’s Godmother and God-siblings were able to join us for Mass and the visit.  
We had a blessed time.  The residents were elated to see all the children.  Many of the residents desired to place the beads on the children.  They desired to put smiles on the children.  It was beautiful to see such act of charity.  After all, we were there to visit them and bring them a special offering.  Somehow we managed to distribute over 100 necklaces and leis.
ALL FOR!
kids in the park
We visited a park on the way home.  It was not in the best of shape but that didn’t seem to bother my kids.
3.8 shrove tue sparkles in the park3.8 shrove tue sweetie in the park3.8 shrove tue papi in the park3.8 shrove tue df and rose s in the park         shrove tuesday lunch kid's choice We let the kids pick their lunch.  Pizza, candy, pretzels, ranch & cucumbers. and soda. 

shrove tuesday lunch dl 3.8











They were thrilled with the day!

Team ALL FOR! NUN RUN

March 14, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Fitness, Health, Nun Run, Running, Team ALL FOR 2 Comments

image[5] link your blog post to this linky or email me your pictures/results.  all emails and posts will be entered into the Team ALL FOR! giveaway.

 

Nun Run

March 14, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Fitness, Health, Running, Team ALL FOR 4 Comments

nun run 2011 joy

Saturday, March 12 was the official day for the 2nd Annual Nun Run.  I woke up at 4:45am to cook breakfast and get ready to run.  Papi woke up at 6:30am and was certain to rally the troops.  Dad got home at 7am.  He ate breakfast and got ready ready for the run. 

We went out at 7:45am to start our run at 8:00am.

pre race JOY

Everyone was excited to be outdoors.  Sweetie had shoe troubles, her laces were too long.  She forgot all about it once she got moving.

Here we are warming up – walking to the levee.warm up joy

team all for joy

Sparkles agreed to have some pre-race fun.  She joyfully warmed up as Sr. Carmen Maria Bernadette.

nun run 2011 sparkles JOY

We decided to run the first mile together.  Rose had to opt out of running.  She is still recovering from an injury. 

Runners, take your mark!

 take your mark JOY

We had a couple of false starts.false start joy

The girls pushed themselves and ran hard.

Here are the 1 mile race results:

  • Sweetie -11:32
  • Sparkles – 11:48
  • Dragonfly – 11:54

Papi – ran his own race and did not go for time.

papi collage joy

We had a beautiful scenery to help keep our minds focused on Our Creator.  animals joyscenery joymore scenery joy        

Rose took the littles back home after their 1 mile run.  Dad and I continued for the remainder of our 10K.

post mi one

I’ve ran many miles over the past 2 months.  Still, running doesn’t seem to get easier for me.  I must make a new conviction each mile to persevere, to glorify God with everything I do.  I meditate on Christ’s Passion when I run.  It is through Him that I find my strength.

mom on home stretch JOY

Lena’s 10K time – 60 min 57 sec

Dad was kind enough to run with me despite his lack of sleep. He was a wonderful running partner.

   Here we are post race, 6.2miles.

mom and dad post run

ALL FOR!

share your race day….

Running the Race

March 12, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Fitness, Health, Running, Team ALL FOR 2 Comments

team all for JOY

We completed our NUN RUN – 1mile & 10K runs.

I’ll be back to post more pictures and times.  We’re off to soccer games.

ALL FOR!

‘I forget the past and strain ahead for what is still to come.  I am racing for the finish, for the prize to which God calls us upwards to receive in Christ Jesus.’ (Phil. 3:14)

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