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RMGS ~ Hospitality & Love of God ~ Sewing

October 9, 2012 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Apron, Love of God, RMGS, RMGS 2012-13, San Bruno, Sewing

Rosa Mystica Girls’s Society met for our second meeting of the 2012-13 Session on First Saturday, Oct. 6, 2012. There were twenty-eight girls in attendance for Mass (as a group) and thirty-two girls for the meeting.

Once again, the girls were divided into six groups; Love of God, Industry, Truthfulness, Humility, Piety, and Obedience.

Lesson:

Our new Chaplain, Father B, visited the girls while they were eating snack. The girls stood-up to greet him. Father excused them and invited them to finish their food. In fact, he insisted that they finish eating before he began his lesson. I think it’s a French thing. 

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Father B’s lesson was on the topic of hospitality and love of God. He spoke about the life of San Bruno, the Benedictine Monks, and the Cartesian monks.

Here are some highlights that I took note of from Father’s talk.

San Bruno, whose feast day we celebrate today (10.6), spent time with the Benedictine Monks. The monk’s role is hospitality, to welcome peosan-bruno_thumb4ple. They will take care of everyone who comes to the door. San Bruno wanted more enclosure. He founded the Cartesian Monks with the approval of San Hugues.

The Cartesians live in a monastery that is divided into small houses. Each Cartesian monk lives in his one bedroom, in solitude. He cannot speak all his life. He eats in his room. He prays in solitude. The monk’s life consists solely of work, prayer, and study. It is the most difficult life.

It is said that there are many saints in the Cartesian monasteries that no one knows, only God. They desire to be in the Sacred Heart of Jesus. They have a profound humility. In fact, a Cartesian will never name himself as author of a book. His work will only state that it was authored by a Cartesian Monk. Few monks have been canonized because of their humility to remain unknown.

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Why did His heart re-start after three days (Resurrection)? HE LOVES US! Every heartbeat of the Lord is for us, every single one of us!

Is the heart of Jesus still beating today? Yes, because He loves us.

Only one man has listened to the heart of Jesus, who is he? John.

You must take the time to listen to your heart to understand how is works.

In time of trial or temptation, seek to listen to the heart of Jesus. Say, “I would like to listen to the heart of Jesus.” You will see your heart come down and the temptation will be removed.

Love God as He as loved you. Pray for the Blessed Mother’s intercession.

AN ACT OF LOVE

O my God, I love Thee with my whole heart and above all things, because Thou art the supreme Good, and most worthy of our love. For the love of Thee I will love my neighbor as myself.

Skill:

apron-front-view-v2_thumb2The girls were then given an overview of their sewing project, a simple apron. Each girl was able to select her desired apron combination. PA050440_thumb2

The first group consisted of nineteen girls, ages 9-10. Their aprons were completely prepped for them to begin sewing. Note, the focus of this skill set is to give the girls an introduction to sewing so that they gain interest to continue to learn about the skill.

The other group consisted of nineteen girls, ages 11-13. Those girls were given pre-cut fabric and ties. They were instructed to complete the necessary steps so that they could begin their sewing at next month’s meeting.

Majority of the younger girls had the opportunity to sew at the machine with the guidance of a mom or older sister. Those that were not able to sew will be the first on the sewing machine in November.

The sewing helpers did a wonderful job instructing the girls while allowing them to be an active participant in the sewing process.

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The older girls diligently completed their tasks.

  1. turn ties if needed
  2. iron waist and neck ties
  3. pin ties to top fabric
  4. pin lining to top fabric, enclosing the ties
  5. help one another

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A complete tutorial for this project was included in the girls’ Hospitality Binders.

Name tags were worked on when the main sewing project was completed.

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Handouts:

Agenda for meeting

Prayers:

  • An Act of Love

Hospitality:

  • Activity Sheet – Hospitality & Love of God ~ Sewing – includes suggested activities to help the girls grow in virtue and the skill of sewing
  • Jo’s Boys
  • Handout on the history of an apron
  • Theological Virtues Flower

Sewing:

  • Tutorial: Simple Apron – complete instructions for our sewing project. Inspired by here and here.

Wrap-up:

We began to close the meeting at 11:45pm, thanks to the reminder from Mrs. G – time flies when you’re having fun!

The girls wrapped up their projects and labeled their work so that it could be easily found at the next meeting. Their group areas were tidied. The worker moms did their magic while I closed the meeting with a recap of the day’s lesson and skill.

The girls were informed of the new handouts that were placed in their binders. They were encouraged to complete the related activities to further develop a Love of God, hospitality, and sewing skills.

The question of the day was answered, “Can I take home my apron to work on it?” The answer was, “Yes! You may take home the apron to work on it as long as you follow the directions that were given in class, bring it back the following month, and I have the consent of your mom.”

The girls were also reminded about the upcoming Fall Bake Sale on October 21 – sign-up today!

The meeting closed with the Angelus.

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Our Lady of the Mystical Rose, pray for us!

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Thank you to all the moms and girls who gave a hand with instruction and after the meeting for clean-up. We appreciate your help! Things were a bit hectic but it turned out great. We especially appreciate all the help from the moms sharing their skills on the sewing machine. Our goal is to assist the girls in following the complete directions (without deviation) in the skill set while being as hands-off as possible. It’s a fine dance but you all managed to make it look effortless. Great Job! We hope to see you all again for the next two months while we complete the aprons. ALL FOR!

RMGS Meeting ~ Hospitality

September 16, 2012 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Embroidery, Hospitality, RMGS, RMGS 2012-13, Sewing

RMGS logo
September 1 was the first meeting for the RMGS 2012-13 session.  It was also the first meeting under new leadership since the inception of RMGS.  Mrs. P and I were beyond excited to see familiar faces among a few newcomers. 

We had a wonderful turnout of thirty-nine girls (out of 41).  Twenty-six of the girls sat together for Mass.

All returned to the gym for the remainder of our meeting.  Snacks were provided by LC, LG, and WG.  Additional snacks were brought by EF and CP.  Remember, all snacks are welcome!

The girls were then divided into six groups.  Each group was given a name of a virtue that we will be covering this year – Love of God, Industry, Truthfulness, Humility, Piety, and Obedience.  The girls will rotate into a new group at the start of a new skill.

Virtue Group Signs - industryVirtue Group Signs - truthfulnessVirtue Group Signs - love of GodVirtue Group Signs - obedienceVirtue Group Signs - pietyVirtue Group Signs - humility

The first meeting took on a different format than many were familiar with from the past.  In fact, it was different than what we plan to conduct for the remaining meetings.  We wanted the first meeting to be somewhat informal and to serve as a welcome back get-together.   We covered majority of the housekeeping topics for the coming year.  We also gave the girls an opportunity to get to know one another with a fun ice-breaker game, I know Something…
9.1.12 girls completing I KNOW SOMETHING
The girls received their RMGS – Hospitality Binder and a brief overview of the outline for the year. 

RMGS mission is to help young girls grow in faith, virtue, and service, through hospitality, in union with the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass.
9.1.12 RMGS Hospitality Binder
  • Calendar – found on eloop
  • Guidelines
  • Groups & Virtues
  • Prayers – first three prayers come from Fr. Lasance Catholic Girls’ Guide

9.1.12 Fr. Stinson talking to the girls about hospitality and blessing
Fr. S gave a splendid talk to the girls on our focus for the year, hospitality.  He was charismatic and related to the girls in a way that I had not seen before.  Deo gratias!  We will miss him this year but look forward to our new Spiritual Director.  The girls gave Father a birthday send-off (his birthday was 9.6) and he gave them a blessing.

The girls generated three lists of ways to show hospitality; in the home, at church, at other places.  Each group contributed to the list.  We will continue to add to the list throughout the year as we follow Fr. Lasance’s Catholic Girls’ Guide and grow in virtue.  We recommend that each girl have their own copy of Fr. Lasance’s Catholic Girls’ Guide.

Next, the girls received a brief overview of our next skill to come, sewing.  They briefly reviewed the sewing section in their RMGS – Hospitality Binders.  The girls are to continue reading the sewing section and complete the sewing machine anatomy prior to our next meeting.  We encourage moms to help them along with their introduction to sewing.  We will sew an apron over the next three meetings.

Sewing:

  • Sewing Divider Sheet – made with image from The Graphics Fairy
  • Sewing Activity Sheet – to be passed out at the Oct. meeting
  • Embroidery Stich Book – printable
  • Sewing 101: Basic Sewing Tools and Supplies – printable
  • Anatomy of a Sewing Machine – blank printable for quiz
  • Anatomy of a Sewing Machine with Labels – printable
  • Sewing 101: Sewing Machine Parts – printable
  • Sewing 101: Threading Sewing Machine – printable
  • Sewing 101: Basic Stiches – printable
  • Sewing 101: General Sewing Tips – printable
  • Sewing Basics – printable
  • Sewing 101: Types of Presser Foots – printable

9.1.12 girls working on their embroidered name tags
The girls were given instructions to complete an embroidered name tag using the split stich.  The name tags were a simple task to allow the girls some hand sewing practice and help give us an idea of the skill levels that we have to work with.  It was (and will continue to be) imperative that the girls follow the instructions during our meetings.  We realize that the girls have many great ideas and their creativity is often endless but we want to keep everyone on the same page so that each girl can acquire a basic understanding of simple skills.  We encourage the girls to expand upon the skills introduced (at the meetings) while at home.

The meeting ended with an overview of the meeting and sharing of projects.  We closed with a prayer taken from Fr. Lasance, found on the RMGS Prayer Page.

PRAYER AFTER INSTRUCTION
We give Thee thanks, merciful God, for the instruction and direction which we have received. Grant us Thy grace that we may lay the lesson to heart and carry it into action, to Thy glory and our eternal welfare. Furthermore we pray Thee to pour forth Thy blessing upon our parents and superiors, our teachers and benefactors, and to recompense them abundantly for all the good which they have been the means of bringing to us. Through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Our Lady of the Mystical Rose, pray for us!
Thank you to all the moms and girls who gave a hand during the meeting for instruction and after the meeting for clean-up.  We appreciate your help.  The many hands meant light work and an early depart time for us.  Thank you!!

Called to Serve

September 2, 2012 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Girls, Little Flowers, RMGS

It wasn’t an easy decision to make but it was covered in prayer and brought to direction, I have moved on from leading Little Flowers. I spent a total of six years leading a Little Flowers group for my daughters and community. Ultimately, that’s why I do it, to fulfill my vocation as a mother to my girls to serve my community – ALL FOR! It has been challenging at times due to my many limitations but Dad and the kids support me in all ways possible. A break from all leadership roles has sounded ideal to me on more than one occasion. Yet, the good Lord, often times through my husband, encourages me on – to grow, to serve, and to love!

I was led this year to step down from RMGS binder clipone role to fill another. I will now lead  Rosa Mystica Girls’ Society (RMGS), a group of girls from ages 9-13, forty-one girls to be exact. A dedicated and talented mother within my parish community created RMGS. She successfully led the girls in domestic skills, devotion to Our Lady, and a baby blanket ministry for the local pregnancy resource home for several years.  She had to move on from leadership this year due to a new  season in her life. Her shoes could not be filled without His grace, the grace that prompted me to rally a partner and serve once again.

It also helped to have early discussions with Margaret and Jessica. It’s my hope to share (on my blog) some of what my partner and I will be offering the girls in RMGS.

Sparkles is a member of RMGS, Sweetie will spend another year in Little Flowers, and Rose continues to be actively enrolled in Sodality. I’m praying for the grace and energy to persevere in this task that I have been called to.

Our Lady of the Mystical Rose, pray for us!

Our Lady of Mount Carmel

July 16, 2010 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Marian, Our Lady of Mount Carmel, RMGS

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Our Lady of Mount Carmel
July 16 – Today is the principal feast day of the Carmelite Order. Through the efforts of the crusader Berthold, a group of hermits living on Mount Carmel were organized into an Order after the traditional Western type about the year 1150. Oppressed by the Saracens, the monks slowly emigrated to Europe. During the night preceding the sixteenth of July, 1225, the Blessed Virgin is said to have commanded Pope Honorius III to approve the foundation. Since the Carmelites were still under constant harassment, the sixth General of the Order, St. Simon Stock, pleaded with the Blessed Virgin for some special sign of her protection. On July 16, 1251, she designated the scapular as the special mark of her maternal love. That is why the present feast is also known as the feast of the Scapular. The scapular, as part of the habit, is common to many religious Orders, but it is a special feature of the Carmelites. A smaller form of the scapular is given to lay persons in order that they may share in the great graces associated with it. Such a grace is the “Sabbatine privilege.” In the so-called Bulla Sabbatina John XXII affirmed that wearers of the scapular are soon freed from the flames of purgatory, at least by the Saturday after death. The confirmation of the Bulla Sabbatina was promulgated by the Sacred Congregation of Indulgences, July 4, 1908
Scapular of Carmel, a Treasure For the Church – From the Vatican, 25 March 2001. Joannes Paulus II

Rose & Mom at Carmelite Monastery
Rose and I in front of the Carmelite Monastery Chapel – June 2008

Rosa Mystica Girls Society singing Flos Carmeli to the Carmelites after Mass
(be sure to turn off the music below before playing this short clip)
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