striving to radiate Him always
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by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: 11 November Saints, Advent, Christmas, Novena, St. Andrew 4 Comments
***See the newest post for more Christmas Novena Images & Printables.
Below are images to use as reminders on your tech gadgets and social media outlets. You are invited to use the images for your personal use and share freely.
This image can be saved on your phone or iPad and set as your lock screen and wallpaper.
This image can be used as a FaceBook cover photo or a blog header.
I’ve also formatted a page of printable holy cards for the Christmas Novena They can be used alone or used when making a Christmas Novena Chaplet.
Prayers for a blessed and fruitful Advent!
by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Ash Wednesday, Lent Leave a Comment
Why is this day thus named?
Because on this day the Church blesses ashes, and places them on the heads of her faithful children, saying: “Remember man, thou art dust, and unto dust thou shaft return.”
Why is this done?
St. Charles Borromeo gives us the following reasons for this practice: that the faithful may be moved to sincere humility of heart; that the heavenly blessing may descend upon them, by which they, being really penitent, will weep with their whole soul for their sins, remembering how earth was cursed because of sin, and that we have all to return to dust; that strength to do true penance may be given the body, and that our soul may be endowed with divine grace to persevere in penance.
With such thoughts let the ashes be put upon your head, while you ask in all humility and with a contrite heart, for God’s mercy and grace.
Is the practice of putting ashes upon our heads pleasing to God?
It is, for God Himself commanded the Israelites to put ashes on their heads for a sign of repentance. (Jer. XXV. 34.) Thus did David (Ps, CI. 10.) who even strewed ashes on his bread; the Ninivites, (Jonas III. 5.) Judith, (Jud, IX. 1.) Mardochai, (Esth. IV 1.) Job, (JobXLII. 6.) etc. The Christians of the earliest times followed this practice as often as they did public penance for their sins.
Why from this day until the end of Lent are the altars draped in violet?
Because, as has been already said, the holy season of Lent is a time of sorrow and penance for sin, and the Church desires externally to demonstrate by the violet with which she drapes the altar, by the violet vestments worn by the priests, and by the cessation of the organ and festive singing, that we in quiet mourning are bewailing our sins; and to still further impress the spirit of penance upon us, there is usually only a simple crucifix or a picture of Christ’s passion, left visible upon the altar, and devoutly meditating upon it, the heart is mostly prepared for contrition.
In the Introit of this day’s Mass the Church uses the following words to make known her zeal for penance, and to move
INTROIT God to mercy: Thou hast mercy upon all, O Lord, and hatest none of the things which Thou hast made, winking at the sins of men for the sake of repentance, and sparing them; for thou art the Lord our God. (Wisd. XI. 24. 25.) Have mercy on me, O God, have mercy on me; for my soul trusteth in thee. (Ps. LVI. 2.) Glory be to the Father, etc.
COLLECT Grant to thy faithful, O Lord, that they may begin the venerable solemnities of fasting with suitable piety, and perform them with tranquil devotion. Through Jesus Christ, our Lord, etc.
LESSON (Joel II. 12-19) Thus with the Lord: Be converted to me with all your heart, in fasting, and in weeping, and in mourning. And rend your hearts and not your garments, and turn to the Lord your God; for he is gracious and merciful, patient and rich in mercy, and ready to repent of the evil. Who knoweth but he will return, and forgive, anal leave a blessing behind him, sacrifice and libation to the Lord your God? Blow the trumpet in Sion: sanctify a fast; call a solemn assembly; gather together the people; sanctify the Church; assemble the ancients; gather together the little ones, and them that suck at the breasts; let the bridegroom go forth from his bed, and the bride out of her bride-chamber. Between the porch and the altar the priests, the Lord’s ministers, shall weep; and shall say: Spare, O Lord, spare thy people; and give not thine inheritance to reproach, that the heathens should rule over them. Why should they say among the nations: Where is their God? The Lord hath been zealous for his land, and hath spared his people. And the Lord answered, and said to his people: Behold, I will send you corn, and wine, and oil, and you shall be filled with them; and I will no more make you a reproach among the nations, with the Lord Almighty.
EXPLANATION The Prophet Joel exhorts the Jews to sorrow and penance for their sins, that they evade the expected judgment to be sent by God upon the city of Jerusalem. He required of them to show their repentance not merely by rending their garments, a sign of mourning with the Jews, but by a truly contrite heart. The Church wishes us to see plainly from this lesson of the prophet what qualities our penance should possess, if we desire reconciliation with God, forgiveness of our sins, and deliverance at the Last Day, which qualities are not merely abstinence from food and amusements, but the practice of real mortification of our evil inclinations, thus becoming with our whole heart converted to God.
GOSPEL (Matt. VI. 16-21) At that time, Jesus said to his disciples: When you fast, be not as the hypocrites, sad. For they disfigure their faces, that they may appear unto men to fast. Amen I say to you, they have received their reward. But thou, when thou fastest, anoint thy head and wash thy face, that thou appear not to men to fast, but to thy Father who is in secret, and thy Father who seeth in secret will repay thee. Lay not up to yourselves treasures on earth, where the rust and moth consume, and where thieves break through and steal. But lay up to yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither the rust nor moth doth consume, and where thieves do not break through nor steal. For where thy treasure is, there is thy heart also.
EXPLANATION Jesus forbids us to seek the praises of men when performing good works, (fasting is a good work,) and still worse it would be to do good as the Pharisees, through hypocrisy. He also warns us against avarice and the desire for temporal riches, urging us to employ our temporal goods, in giving alms, and doing works of charity, thus laying up treasures in heaven, which are there rewarded and will last there forever. “What folly”, says St. Chrysostom, “to leave our goods where we cannot stay, instead of sending them before us where we are going — to heaven!”‘
by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Lent, Lent 2015, Lenten Calendar 6 Comments
This Lent Calendar follows the Traditional Calendar (1962) with some Historical (H) feast days noted. The saints listed in bold are represented with an image. We do not celebrate many of the feast days listed during Lent.* They are included for private devotion and will be called upon for intercessory prayers.
I print my calendar at Costco Photo in 16×20 ($5.99) for the display near the family down stairs altar and 8×10 ($1.49) for bedrooms upstairs. The calendar can also be printed at home.
You may download and print the calendar for your personal use.
Email me at JOYfilledfamily{at}gmail{dot}com if you prefer to have a JPEG file and/or PDF sent directly to you. I will gladly send out the 2015 Lenten Calendar file at any time in the Lenten Season.
In order to keep up the character of mournfulness and austerity which is so well suited to Lent, the Church, for many centuries, admitted very few feasts into this portion of her year, inasmuch as there is always joy where there is even a spiritual feast…During the last few centuries, she has admitted several other feasts into that portion of her general calendar which coincides with Lent; still, she observes a certain restriction, out of respect for the ancient practice. ~“The Mystery of Lent” – Extraordinary Form (Tridentine) from Dom Gueranger’s “The Liturgical Year”
The following prayers are also included on the calendar.
O Lord Jesus! who spent forty days in the desert without food or drink, and didst permit Thy self to be tempted by the evil spirit, give me, I beseech Thee by that holy fast, the grace to combat, during this holy season of Lent, under Thy protection, against intemperance, and to resist the suggestions of Satan that I may win the crown of eternal life. Amen. ~Rev. Fr. Leonard Goffine’s The Church’s Year
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Behold, O good and most sweet Jesus, I fall upon my knees before Thee, and with most fervent desire beg and beseech Thee that Thou wouldst impress upon my heart a lively sense of faith, hope and charity, true repentance for my sins, and a firm resolve to make amends. And with deep affection and grief, I reflect upon Thy five wounds, having before my eyes that which Thy prophet David spoke about Thee, o good Jesus: “They have pierced my hands and feet, they have counted all my bones.” Amen.
This prayer calls to mind Psalm 21, in particular verses 17 and 18, which concern our Lord’s Passion. A plenary indulgence is granted to the faithful on any Friday of Lent or Passiontide who after Communion piously recite this prayer before an image of Christ crucified. On other days of the year the indulgence is partial.
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+Ad Jesum Per Mariam+
We seek to be fully immersed in a life a prayer within our current state of life so that we can grow an intimate union with Christ, foster the virtues of humility and charity, and properly purge ourselves of things of this world that have been hindering our union with Him. We hope to model the Holy Family of Nazareth with the purpose of transforming our own family into a “true sanctuary of Love”.
by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: 12 December, 12 December Saints, Advent, St. Lucia, St. Lucy Leave a Comment
Feast – December 13
Lucy, patron of Sicily, and one of the saints of the Canon of the Mass, was martyred at Syracuse in the persecution of Diocletian about the year 304. The legend of her martyrdom says that she was denounced as a Christian by a rejected suitor. Refusing to apostatize, she was condemned to a brothel, but a mysterious force prevented the persecutors from moving her from the tribunal. After an unsuccessful attempt had been made to burn her to death, her neck was pierced with a dagger.
O God, our Creator and Redeemer, Mercifully hear our prayers that a we venerate Thy servant, St. Lucy, for the light of faith Thou didst bestow upon her, Thou wouldst vouchsafe to increase and to preserve this same light in our souls, that we may be able to avoid evil, to do good and to abhor nothing so much as the blindness and the darkness of evil and of sin.
Relying on Thy goodness, O God, we humbly ask Thee, by the intercession of Thy servant, St. Lucy that Thou wouldst give perfect vision to our eyes, that they may serve for Thy greater honor and glory, and for the salvation of our souls in this world, that we may come to the enjoyment of the unfailing light of the Lamb of God in paradise.
St. Lucy, virgin and martyr, hear our prayer and obtain our petitions.
Dad has Scandinavian and Italian blood but we celebrate this glorious feast day because we are Catholic and seek the intercession of our beloved St. Lucia. We seek her intercession in a special way this year. SANTA LUCIA, ORA PRO NOBIS.
One of the most enjoyable ways to teach our children the richness of the Catholic Faith and to keep them close to the Holy Mother Church is to fill their lives with the sacred and the beautiful. When they are immersed in the reverence and silence of the Traditional Latin Mass, when they grow accustomed to the rhythm and rituals of following and celebrating the feast days, both at Church and at home, these traditions become such an integral part of them that the thought of not being Catholic will seem empty and meaningless.
Sparkles and Sweetie decided to spear head our Santa Lucia feast day. The scoured their recipes in search of a new twist. Our simple celebration started the night before since I’m on bed-rest and there is no telling what will come at any given moment. The girls prepped their treats with some help from Star Boys, Papi and Dragonfly.
The girls woke us up by candlelight and led us downstairs to a beautiful spread. Dad played “Santa Lucia” (click to hear) as we processed.
PRAYER TO ST. LUCY, PATRON OF THE EYES
We present ourselves before thee, O virgin Martyr, beseeching thee to obtain for us that we may recognize in His lowliness that same Jesus Whom thou now seest in His glory. Take us under thy powerful patronage. Thy name signifies light; guide us through the dark night of this life. O fair light of virginity! enlighten us; evil concupiscence has wounded our eyes: pray for us, O thou bright light of virginity! that our blindness be healed, and that rising above created things, we may be able to see that true light, which shineth in darkness, but which darkness cannot comprehend. Pray for us, that our eye may be purified, and may see, in the Child who is to be born at Bethlehem, the new Man, the second Adam, the model on Which the life of our regeneration must be formed. Pray too, O holy virgin, for the Church of Rome and for all those which adopt her form of the holy Sacrifice; for they daily pronounce at the altar of God thy sweet name; and the Lamb, Who is present, loves to hear it. Heap thy choicest blessings on the fair Isle, which was thy native land, and where grew the palm of thy Martyrdom. May thy intercession secure to her inhabitants firmness of faith, purity of morals, and temporal prosperity, and deliver them from the disorders which threaten her with destruction.
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Today our parish also celebrated with a Solemn Rorate Mass. The Rorate Mass is a special votive mass for Our Lady during Advent, traditionally celebrated by candlelight in the early morning. As the Mass ends the sky is just starting to glow with the new day and we journey from darkness to light and the coming of the Word Made Flesh in the womb of the Virgin Mother is upon us.
The piece is “Gabriel’s Message,” a traditional Basque Advent carol, sung by the Choir and Choristers of St. Stephen the First Martyr Parish on the album “The Little Road to Bethlehem.”
This video was created by a talented parishioner, Jennifer Rego.
by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Prayer for Families, Prayers, Vocations Leave a Comment
Here is the vocation prayer that our Pastor has encouraged our community to pray. In addition, we offer our First Sunday Communion for this intention. Be certain to read the story behind it’s origination. (see below)
The Example of Lu Monferrato
The little village of Lu, northern Italy, with only a few thousand inhabitants, is in a rural area 90 kilometers east of Turin. It would still be unknown to this day if, in the year 1881, the family mothers of Lu had not made a decision that had “serious consequences”.
The deepest desire of many of these mothers was for one of their sons to become a priest or for a daughter to place her life completely in God’s service. Under the direction of their parish priest, Msgr. Alessandro Canora, they gathered every Tuesday for adoration of the Blessed Sacrament, asking the Lord for vocations. They received Holy Communion on the first Sunday of every month with the same intention. After Mass, all the mothers prayed a particular prayer together imploring for vocations to the priesthood.
Through the trusting prayer of these mothers and the openness of the other parents, an atmosphere of deep joy and Christian piety developed in the families, making it much easier for the children to recognize their vocations.
Did the Lord not say,“Many are called, but few are chosen” (Mt 22:14)? In other words, many are called, but only a few respond to that call. No one expected that God would hear the prayers of these mothers in such an astounding way.
From the tiny village of Lu came 323 vocations!: 152 priests (diocesan and religious), and 171 nuns belonging to 41 different congregations.
Every ten years, the priests and sisters born in Lu come together from all around the world. Fr. Mario Meda, the long-serving parish priest of Lu, explained that this reunion is a true celebration, a feast of thanksgiving to God who has done such great things for Lu.
The prayer that the Mothers of Lu prayed was short, simple, and deep:
O God, grant that one of my sons may become a priest!
I myself want to live as a good Christian
and want to guide my children always to do what is right,
so that I may receive the grace, O God, to be allowed to give you a holy priest! Amen.This picture is indeed unique in the annals of the Catholic Church. From 1 to 4 September 1946, the majority of the 323 priests and religious met in their village of Lu for a reunion which attracted world-wide attention.
The rural village of Lu in Italy.
by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: 12 December, Advent, St. Andrew Leave a Comment
Hail and blessed be the hour and moment in which the Son of God was born of the most pure Virgin Mary, at midnight, in Bethlehem, in piercing cold. In that hour, vouchsafe, O my God! to hear my prayer and grant my desires, through the merits of Our Saviour Jesus Christ, and of His Blessed Mother. Amen.
(It is piously believed that whoever recites the above prayer fifteen times a day from the feast of St. Andrew (30th November) until Christmas will obtain what is asked.)
Imprimatur
+MICHAEL AUGUSTINE, Archbishop of New York
New York, February 6, 1897
by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: 10 October Saints, Advent, Christ the King, Crafts Leave a Comment
The littles missed out on their CCM Co-op meeting today due to illness but that didn’t stop the crafting fun. It was my turn to lead the preschool children with CCM Gamma Week 7 materials.
The book selected was The Donkey Who Carried a King. The book selected makes a great read for Lent in preparation for Easter but it also provides a great mediation for Advent. I selected a craft that could double up for Advent, Christ the King and donkey felt stick puppets. It only required 240 cut pieces of felt.
The Donkey Who Carried a King
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by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: All Saints Day, Costumes, GFG Leave a Comment
Our Parish held their Annual All Saints Eve Party. It is a great joy for us to celebrate in anticipation for the blessed feast day.
This is the great family feast of the Mystical Body in its final triumph. The unnumbered and nameless multitude of saints, “out of all nations and tribes and peoples and tongues,” are our brothers and sisters in Christ at home with our Redeemer-Brother. Their sainthood is the fulfillment of living the eight Beatitudes. They are the great Christian heroes. “Eye has not seen nor ear heard, nor has it entered into the heart of man, what things God has prepared for those who love Him” (I Cor. 2:9).
JOYfilledfamily Saint Line-up
(Missing – San Gennaro) St. Florian, St. John Bosco, St. Kateri, and St. Olga
Patron: against battle, against drowning, against fire, against flood, barrel-makers, brewers, chimney sweeps, coopers, drowning victims, fire prevention, firefighters, harvests, soap-boilers, Austria, Poland, and Chur, Switzerland.
She was the first Rus’ ruler to convert to Christianity. Olga was one of the first people of Rus’ to be proclaimed a saint, for her efforts to spread the Christian religion in the country.
Patron: Apprentices; boys; editors; Mexican young people; laborers; schoolchildren; students; young people.
Patron: Ecologists; ecology; environment; environmentalism; environmentalists; exiles; loss of parents; people in exile; people ridiculed for their piety
Patron: patron of Naples, Italy; blood banks; volcanic eruption
by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: All Saints Day, Costumes, Crafts, St. John Bosco 6 Comments
Papi had his heart set on being St. John Bosco for All Saints’ Day. I guess he didn’t get the memo that mama was out on pregnancy leave. He rallied the troops and collected money for me to take a trip to the nearby fabric store, at 8 pm no less. It took me another week to muster up the energy to begin my costume making sweat shop boutique. That week was last week, two weeks before the beautiful feast day celebrations. Praise God, I’m ahead of schedule.
I desired to piece together his cassock costume in the wee hours of the night so I could have uninterrupted sewing bliss but he had other plans. He urged me to get moving so he could sew his cassock. By sewing I mean pressing the foot pedal and supervising my fabric feeding. The cassock was completed within minutes. It has plenty of room for improvement but has been given the seven year old stamp of approval. Papi was so giddy with his work that he allowed me to start the biretta the following day. Such a generous boy is he.
Good thing Melody finally got around to sharing her biretta making tricks. (Love ya, Melody.) I had planned on making birettas for the boys’ Christmas presents and was excited to use the pattern and tutorial that she provided. (I can now check off birettas from the Christmas list.) I stared at the pattern for a good part of the day then finally built up the courage to get to work. My courage faded after step 3. Turns out that the pattern was not intended for placenta brain. I contacted Melody out of desperation and she walked me through the process. She also talked me off the cliff on numerous occasions.
It’s far more simple than you realize….Focus. Reread my last instruction. It’s not as hard as it seems…Yes! that’s it!…Maybe put it down and finish tomorrow. You sound crafted out…It looks great, btw.
Praise God for fellow mamas waist deep in the trenches who seek to counsel the doubtful.
Here is my photo tutorial for the DIY Biretta for the simple minded mamas. Be sure to check Blossoming Joy’s post, How to Make a Priest Biretta for All Saints’ Day, for a full description, link to the biretta pattern, and link to the pom pom tutorial.
The biretta is a tri-cornered or square-shaped hat with silk trim, tuft (except for the birette of seminarians and cardinals) and three raised wings, called “horns,” on top at three corners (the side of the hat without the horn is worn on the left side of the head). It is made of scarlet silk for cardinals, violet silk for bishops, and black merlino for priests, deacons, and seminarians. ~ Fisheaters
Presto!
Now mama can get some rest.
Hi! I'm Lena, mama of JOYfilledfamily.
We are a traditional Catholic family striving to live for Jesus Christ in everything we do. We pray to completely surrender our will to His and to become His servants. Our mission of this blog is to share our JOY.
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