Prayers for a JOYfilled Christmas & New Year!
Merry Christmas (from the past)
2014 Advent & Christmas was spent in and out of the hospital as we were faced with many challenges. My family was stretched and refine. It was one of my most difficult periods but I wouldn’t trade it — it was a gift! I learned how to better live in the moment and to truly grasp that I must live as though this were my last hour. Deo gratias!
Here is the Christmas Card I would have sent had I not been in the operating room for an emergency surgery on Christmas Day.
Word of the Year ~ 2016
It’s been almost a full year since I visited you here. My family had a year of rest and healing from an arduous year in 2014. I hope to reflect on that period someday. For now I’ll continue to put one foot in front of the other and pray for the grace to persevere.
I have many goals for myself this year. Many of which will have me return to my old rhythm of living and a handful that will carry me to new places. I trust that He will lead the way.
Last year I made very little movement in any direction. I remained right where He put me and prayerfully reflected on the crosses that He blessed me with in 2014. That meant that I did not adopt a new word for 2015. My moto remained imprinted on my heart.
Be Charitable. love others, especially family, the way He loves you.
Be Useful. serve always.
Be Gentle. have the loving heart, tongue and hand of Mary.
Be Joyful. stay rooted in the true JOY – JESUS. share the JOY with all.
Forget about yourself. die to self, live for God alone.
Pray. speak to God often and cover everything in prayer.
NOW! offer prompt obedience to God’s will for you.
ALL FOR…Jesus through Mary with the intercession of St. Joseph.
I will be adopting a Word of the Year again for 2016. The word was picked to help keep me focused as I reestablish a rhythm in my home. The word is ORDER. May I begin with God and may I end with God!
St. Nicholas
Christmas Novena Reminders
***See the newest post for more Christmas Novena Images & Printables.
Below are images to use as reminders on your tech gadgets and social media outlets. You are invited to use the images for your personal use and share freely.
This image can be saved on your phone or iPad and set as your lock screen and wallpaper.
This image can be used as a FaceBook cover photo or a blog header.
I’ve also formatted a page of printable holy cards for the Christmas Novena They can be used alone or used when making a Christmas Novena Chaplet.
Prayers for a blessed and fruitful Advent!
Ash Wednesday
Rev. Fr. Leonard Goffine’s
The Church’s Year
ASH WEDNESDAY
Why is this day thus named?
Because on this day the Church blesses ashes, and places them on the heads of her faithful children, saying: “Remember man, thou art dust, and unto dust thou shaft return.”
Why is this done?
St. Charles Borromeo gives us the following reasons for this practice: that the faithful may be moved to sincere humility of heart; that the heavenly blessing may descend upon them, by which they, being really penitent, will weep with their whole soul for their sins, remembering how earth was cursed because of sin, and that we have all to return to dust; that strength to do true penance may be given the body, and that our soul may be endowed with divine grace to persevere in penance.
With such thoughts let the ashes be put upon your head, while you ask in all humility and with a contrite heart, for God’s mercy and grace.
Is the practice of putting ashes upon our heads pleasing to God?
It is, for God Himself commanded the Israelites to put ashes on their heads for a sign of repentance. (Jer. XXV. 34.) Thus did David (Ps, CI. 10.) who even strewed ashes on his bread; the Ninivites, (Jonas III. 5.) Judith, (Jud, IX. 1.) Mardochai, (Esth. IV 1.) Job, (JobXLII. 6.) etc. The Christians of the earliest times followed this practice as often as they did public penance for their sins.
Why from this day until the end of Lent are the altars draped in violet?
Because, as has been already said, the holy season of Lent is a time of sorrow and penance for sin, and the Church desires externally to demonstrate by the violet with which she drapes the altar, by the violet vestments worn by the priests, and by the cessation of the organ and festive singing, that we in quiet mourning are bewailing our sins; and to still further impress the spirit of penance upon us, there is usually only a simple crucifix or a picture of Christ’s passion, left visible upon the altar, and devoutly meditating upon it, the heart is mostly prepared for contrition.
In the Introit of this day’s Mass the Church uses the following words to make known her zeal for penance, and to move
INTROIT God to mercy: Thou hast mercy upon all, O Lord, and hatest none of the things which Thou hast made, winking at the sins of men for the sake of repentance, and sparing them; for thou art the Lord our God. (Wisd. XI. 24. 25.) Have mercy on me, O God, have mercy on me; for my soul trusteth in thee. (Ps. LVI. 2.) Glory be to the Father, etc.
COLLECT Grant to thy faithful, O Lord, that they may begin the venerable solemnities of fasting with suitable piety, and perform them with tranquil devotion. Through Jesus Christ, our Lord, etc.
LESSON (Joel II. 12-19) Thus with the Lord: Be converted to me with all your heart, in fasting, and in weeping, and in mourning. And rend your hearts and not your garments, and turn to the Lord your God; for he is gracious and merciful, patient and rich in mercy, and ready to repent of the evil. Who knoweth but he will return, and forgive, anal leave a blessing behind him, sacrifice and libation to the Lord your God? Blow the trumpet in Sion: sanctify a fast; call a solemn assembly; gather together the people; sanctify the Church; assemble the ancients; gather together the little ones, and them that suck at the breasts; let the bridegroom go forth from his bed, and the bride out of her bride-chamber. Between the porch and the altar the priests, the Lord’s ministers, shall weep; and shall say: Spare, O Lord, spare thy people; and give not thine inheritance to reproach, that the heathens should rule over them. Why should they say among the nations: Where is their God? The Lord hath been zealous for his land, and hath spared his people. And the Lord answered, and said to his people: Behold, I will send you corn, and wine, and oil, and you shall be filled with them; and I will no more make you a reproach among the nations, with the Lord Almighty.
EXPLANATION The Prophet Joel exhorts the Jews to sorrow and penance for their sins, that they evade the expected judgment to be sent by God upon the city of Jerusalem. He required of them to show their repentance not merely by rending their garments, a sign of mourning with the Jews, but by a truly contrite heart. The Church wishes us to see plainly from this lesson of the prophet what qualities our penance should possess, if we desire reconciliation with God, forgiveness of our sins, and deliverance at the Last Day, which qualities are not merely abstinence from food and amusements, but the practice of real mortification of our evil inclinations, thus becoming with our whole heart converted to God.
GOSPEL (Matt. VI. 16-21) At that time, Jesus said to his disciples: When you fast, be not as the hypocrites, sad. For they disfigure their faces, that they may appear unto men to fast. Amen I say to you, they have received their reward. But thou, when thou fastest, anoint thy head and wash thy face, that thou appear not to men to fast, but to thy Father who is in secret, and thy Father who seeth in secret will repay thee. Lay not up to yourselves treasures on earth, where the rust and moth consume, and where thieves break through and steal. But lay up to yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither the rust nor moth doth consume, and where thieves do not break through nor steal. For where thy treasure is, there is thy heart also.
EXPLANATION Jesus forbids us to seek the praises of men when performing good works, (fasting is a good work,) and still worse it would be to do good as the Pharisees, through hypocrisy. He also warns us against avarice and the desire for temporal riches, urging us to employ our temporal goods, in giving alms, and doing works of charity, thus laying up treasures in heaven, which are there rewarded and will last there forever. “What folly”, says St. Chrysostom, “to leave our goods where we cannot stay, instead of sending them before us where we are going — to heaven!”‘
2015 Lent Calendar Printable
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This Lent Calendar follows the Traditional Calendar (1962) with some Historical (H) feast days noted. The saints listed in bold are represented with an image. We do not celebrate many of the feast days listed during Lent.* They are included for private devotion and will be called upon for intercessory prayers.
I print my calendar at Costco Photo in 16×20 ($5.99) for the display near the family down stairs altar and 8×10 ($1.49) for bedrooms upstairs. The calendar can also be printed at home.
You may download and print the calendar for your personal use.
Email me at JOYfilledfamily{at}gmail{dot}com if you prefer to have a JPEG file and/or PDF sent directly to you. I will gladly send out the 2015 Lenten Calendar file at any time in the Lenten Season.
In order to keep up the character of mournfulness and austerity which is so well suited to Lent, the Church, for many centuries, admitted very few feasts into this portion of her year, inasmuch as there is always joy where there is even a spiritual feast…During the last few centuries, she has admitted several other feasts into that portion of her general calendar which coincides with Lent; still, she observes a certain restriction, out of respect for the ancient practice. ~“The Mystery of Lent” – Extraordinary Form (Tridentine) from Dom Gueranger’s “The Liturgical Year”
2015 Lenten Calendar – Purple
- 2015 Lenten Calendar – White
- 2015 Lenten Calendar – Purple Design
- 2015 Lenten Calendar – Purple Design II
The following prayers are also included on the calendar.
O Lord Jesus! who spent forty days in the desert without food or drink, and didst permit Thy self to be tempted by the evil spirit, give me, I beseech Thee by that holy fast, the grace to combat, during this holy season of Lent, under Thy protection, against intemperance, and to resist the suggestions of Satan that I may win the crown of eternal life. Amen. ~Rev. Fr. Leonard Goffine’s The Church’s Year
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Prayer Before A Crucifix ~ En ego, O bone et dulcissime Iesu
Behold, O good and most sweet Jesus, I fall upon my knees before Thee, and with most fervent desire beg and beseech Thee that Thou wouldst impress upon my heart a lively sense of faith, hope and charity, true repentance for my sins, and a firm resolve to make amends. And with deep affection and grief, I reflect upon Thy five wounds, having before my eyes that which Thy prophet David spoke about Thee, o good Jesus: “They have pierced my hands and feet, they have counted all my bones.” Amen.
This prayer calls to mind Psalm 21, in particular verses 17 and 18, which concern our Lord’s Passion. A plenary indulgence is granted to the faithful on any Friday of Lent or Passiontide who after Communion piously recite this prayer before an image of Christ crucified. On other days of the year the indulgence is partial.
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Lenten Activities & Resources for Kids:
- FREE Printable Lenten Calendar – JOYfilledfamily
- Lenten Calendar for Kids – Pondered In My Heart
- Lenten Program Chart – JOYfilledfamily
- Stations of the Cross for Children – Family, Feast, and Feria
- Empty Tomb Garden – JOYfilledfamily
- Lenten Family Joy Journal – craft
- Stations of the Cross Candles – craft
- Resurrection Eggs
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+Ad Jesum Per Mariam+
We seek to be fully immersed in a life a prayer within our current state of life so that we can grow an intimate union with Christ, foster the virtues of humility and charity, and properly purge ourselves of things of this world that have been hindering our union with Him. We hope to model the Holy Family of Nazareth with the purpose of transforming our own family into a “true sanctuary of Love”.
St. Lucia, ora pro nobis!
Saint Lucia
Virgin and Martyr
Feast – December 13
Lucy, patron of Sicily, and one of the saints of the Canon of the Mass, was martyred at Syracuse in the persecution of Diocletian about the year 304. The legend of her martyrdom says that she was denounced as a Christian by a rejected suitor. Refusing to apostatize, she was condemned to a brothel, but a mysterious force prevented the persecutors from moving her from the tribunal. After an unsuccessful attempt had been made to burn her to death, her neck was pierced with a dagger.
Prayer in Honor of St. Lucy
O God, our Creator and Redeemer, Mercifully hear our prayers that a we venerate Thy servant, St. Lucy, for the light of faith Thou didst bestow upon her, Thou wouldst vouchsafe to increase and to preserve this same light in our souls, that we may be able to avoid evil, to do good and to abhor nothing so much as the blindness and the darkness of evil and of sin.
Relying on Thy goodness, O God, we humbly ask Thee, by the intercession of Thy servant, St. Lucy that Thou wouldst give perfect vision to our eyes, that they may serve for Thy greater honor and glory, and for the salvation of our souls in this world, that we may come to the enjoyment of the unfailing light of the Lamb of God in paradise.
St. Lucy, virgin and martyr, hear our prayer and obtain our petitions.
Dad has Scandinavian and Italian blood but we celebrate this glorious feast day because we are Catholic and seek the intercession of our beloved St. Lucia. We seek her intercession in a special way this year. SANTA LUCIA, ORA PRO NOBIS.
One of the most enjoyable ways to teach our children the richness of the Catholic Faith and to keep them close to the Holy Mother Church is to fill their lives with the sacred and the beautiful. When they are immersed in the reverence and silence of the Traditional Latin Mass, when they grow accustomed to the rhythm and rituals of following and celebrating the feast days, both at Church and at home, these traditions become such an integral part of them that the thought of not being Catholic will seem empty and meaningless.
Sparkles and Sweetie decided to spear head our Santa Lucia feast day. The scoured their recipes in search of a new twist. Our simple celebration started the night before since I’m on bed-rest and there is no telling what will come at any given moment. The girls prepped their treats with some help from Star Boys, Papi and Dragonfly.
The girls woke us up by candlelight and led us downstairs to a beautiful spread. Dad played “Santa Lucia” (click to hear) as we processed.
PRAYER TO ST. LUCY, PATRON OF THE EYES
We present ourselves before thee, O virgin Martyr, beseeching thee to obtain for us that we may recognize in His lowliness that same Jesus Whom thou now seest in His glory. Take us under thy powerful patronage. Thy name signifies light; guide us through the dark night of this life. O fair light of virginity! enlighten us; evil concupiscence has wounded our eyes: pray for us, O thou bright light of virginity! that our blindness be healed, and that rising above created things, we may be able to see that true light, which shineth in darkness, but which darkness cannot comprehend. Pray for us, that our eye may be purified, and may see, in the Child who is to be born at Bethlehem, the new Man, the second Adam, the model on Which the life of our regeneration must be formed. Pray too, O holy virgin, for the Church of Rome and for all those which adopt her form of the holy Sacrifice; for they daily pronounce at the altar of God thy sweet name; and the Lamb, Who is present, loves to hear it. Heap thy choicest blessings on the fair Isle, which was thy native land, and where grew the palm of thy Martyrdom. May thy intercession secure to her inhabitants firmness of faith, purity of morals, and temporal prosperity, and deliver them from the disorders which threaten her with destruction.
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Resources:
- Saint Lucia song in Swedish, “Sankta Lucia”
- Book on Audio – Lucia, Saint of Light – Ancient Faith Radio
- St. Lucia Crown Tutorial – JOYfilledfamily
- Saint Lucy Coloring Page – Catholic Playground
- St. Lucia & Star Boy Coloring Page – Waltzing Matilda
- St. Lucia Paper Doll COLOR – Lily & Thistle
- St. Lucy Paper Doll B&W – Paper Dali
- Printable St. Lucia Holy Cards
- St. Lucia Wordsearch
- Santa Lucia Peg Dolls – Posie Gets Cozy
- Paper St. Lucia Crown
- St. Lucia Crown or Centerpiece – Nest Full of Eggs
- St. Lucia Card Printable
- Santa Lucia Treats – Catholic Cuisine
- Previous years’ celebrations – JOYfilledfamily
- Latin Mass Propers Online – Full Latin, PDF Format – MaternalHeart.Org: Dec. 13 – St Lucy, Virgin and Martyr: Missa ‘Dilexisti’ with Commemoration of the 2nd Sunday of Advent
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Today our parish also celebrated with a Solemn Rorate Mass. The Rorate Mass is a special votive mass for Our Lady during Advent, traditionally celebrated by candlelight in the early morning. As the Mass ends the sky is just starting to glow with the new day and we journey from darkness to light and the coming of the Word Made Flesh in the womb of the Virgin Mother is upon us.
The piece is “Gabriel’s Message,” a traditional Basque Advent carol, sung by the Choir and Choristers of St. Stephen the First Martyr Parish on the album “The Little Road to Bethlehem.”
This video was created by a talented parishioner, Jennifer Rego.
Prayer of Parents for Priestly & Religious Vocations
“A vocation comes from the heart of God, but goes through the heart of the mother.” ~St. Pope Pius X
Here is the vocation prayer that our Pastor has encouraged our community to pray. In addition, we offer our First Sunday Communion for this intention. Be certain to read the story behind it’s origination. (see below)
Prayer of Parents for Priestly and Religious Vocations
O God, grant that at least one of our sons may become a priest
or religious brother, and one of our daughters a religious sister.
We ourselves want to live as good Christians, and to guide our
children always to do what is right, so that we may receive the
grace, O God, to be allowed to give Thee a holy priest, brother, or
sister! Amen.
(Conclude with an Our Father, Hail Mary and Glory Be)
Prayer for Priestly and Religious Vocations
Priest: Let us pray for priestly and religious vocations.
All: O God, we earnestly beseech Thee to bless the Church with many priests, brothers, and sisters, who will love Thee with their whole hearts, be faithful to their vocations, and gladly spend their entire lives to teach Thy truths, serve Thy Church, and to make Thee known and loved.
Priest: Bless our families, bless our children.
All: Choose from our homes those who are needed for Thy work.
Priest: O Mary, Queen of priestly and religious vocations:
All: Pray for us. Pray for our priests, seminarians and religious. Obtain for us the grace of many more. Amen.
(Please offer your reception of Holy Communion on the first Sunday of the month for vocations)
The Example of Lu Monferrato
The little village of Lu, northern Italy, with only a few thousand inhabitants, is in a rural area 90 kilometers east of Turin. It would still be unknown to this day if, in the year 1881, the family mothers of Lu had not made a decision that had “serious consequences”.
The deepest desire of many of these mothers was for one of their sons to become a priest or for a daughter to place her life completely in God’s service. Under the direction of their parish priest, Msgr. Alessandro Canora, they gathered every Tuesday for adoration of the Blessed Sacrament, asking the Lord for vocations. They received Holy Communion on the first Sunday of every month with the same intention. After Mass, all the mothers prayed a particular prayer together imploring for vocations to the priesthood.
Through the trusting prayer of these mothers and the openness of the other parents, an atmosphere of deep joy and Christian piety developed in the families, making it much easier for the children to recognize their vocations.
Did the Lord not say,“Many are called, but few are chosen” (Mt 22:14)? In other words, many are called, but only a few respond to that call. No one expected that God would hear the prayers of these mothers in such an astounding way.
From the tiny village of Lu came 323 vocations!: 152 priests (diocesan and religious), and 171 nuns belonging to 41 different congregations.
Every ten years, the priests and sisters born in Lu come together from all around the world. Fr. Mario Meda, the long-serving parish priest of Lu, explained that this reunion is a true celebration, a feast of thanksgiving to God who has done such great things for Lu.
The prayer that the Mothers of Lu prayed was short, simple, and deep:
O God, grant that one of my sons may become a priest!
I myself want to live as a good Christian
and want to guide my children always to do what is right,
so that I may receive the grace, O God, to be allowed to give you a holy priest! Amen.This picture is indeed unique in the annals of the Catholic Church. From 1 to 4 September 1946, the majority of the 323 priests and religious met in their village of Lu for a reunion which attracted world-wide attention.
The rural village of Lu in Italy.
Christmas Novena
St. Andrew Christmas Novena
Hail and blessed be the hour and moment in which the Son of God was born of the most pure Virgin Mary, at midnight, in Bethlehem, in piercing cold. In that hour, vouchsafe, O my God! to hear my prayer and grant my desires, through the merits of Our Saviour Jesus Christ, and of His Blessed Mother. Amen.
(It is piously believed that whoever recites the above prayer fifteen times a day from the feast of St. Andrew (30th November) until Christmas will obtain what is asked.)
Imprimatur
+MICHAEL AUGUSTINE, Archbishop of New York
New York, February 6, 1897
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