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My Biggest Sacrifice

March 16, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Lent, Prayer

In case you didn’t know, Lent is my favorite time of year.  I joyfully embrace the cross and yearn to grow closer to Him.  Dad and I prepare a personal Lenten program for ourselves and for our family.  We help the children with their personal Lenten programs.  We also create marital Lenten program.  It sounds like a lot but, really, we keep it simple.

Dad and I serve as each other’s spiritual advisor – to become ONE in Christ.  Our marital Lenten program varies every year with the exception of one element that remains the same on a yearly basis.  We’ve agreed to select a sacrifice for one another.  It is often my biggest sacrifice.  Here are the parameters:

  1. Take time away from home to finalize all Lenten programs and seek direction.  This is usually done on a date walk.*
  2. Start the discussion with a prayer.
  3. Tell the other what item you would like to see him work on/sacrifice for Lent.
    • only one sacrifice can be set
    • be specific
    • give an example
    • there can be no refuting the sacrifice chosen
    • arguing is NOT allowed
  4. Close the discussion with a prayer.
  5. Pray daily for one another.
  6. Repeat steps 1-4 as a follow-up on a weekly basis or daily if needed.

*We invented date walks several years ago when getting away for a date night was not possible.  The walks can last no longer than 45min and no kids are allowed.  They are great for our physical, emotional and spiritual health.

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High school sweet hearts 

Dad and I back in high school.

Married Couple’s Prayer to the Sacred Heart

O most Sacred Heart of Jesus, King and center of all hearts, dwell in our hearts and be our King; grant us by Your grace to love each other truly and chastely, even as You have loved Your spotless Bride, the Church, and have given Yourself up for her.

Bestow upon us that mutual love and Christian forbearance which are so highly acceptable in Your sight, and a mutual patience in bearing each other’s defects; for we are certain that no living creature is free from them. Do not permit even the slightest defect to mar that full and gentle harmony of spirit, the foundation of the mutual assistance in the many and varied hardships of life, that is the end for which woman was created and united inseparably to her husband.

O Lord God, grant that between us there may reign a perpetual holy rivalry toward a life perfectly Christian, by virtue of which there may shine forth more and more clearly the divine image of Your mystic union with Your Holy Church, as You have deigned to imprint it upon us on the auspicious day of our being made one.

Grant, we beseech You, that our good example of Christian living may serve as a powerful inspiration to our children to conform their own lives to Your holy law; and finally, after this exile may we ascend into heaven, where by the help of Your grace, for which we earnestly pray, we may merit to be joined with our children forever and praise and bless You through everlasting ages, Amen.

Prayer Source: Family for Families, The by Francis L. Filas, S.J., The Bruce Publishing Company, Milwaukee, Wisconsin, 1947

Faithfilled Gifts

December 24, 2010 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Christmas, Crafts, FREE, Gifts, Prayer, Saint Cards

I am praying for you during this Holy season and throughout the New Year.  I also wanted to share my latest FREE online find.

I love creating things and always try to make my crafts faithfilled.  I usually  make my gifts and my gift tags.  However, this year I’ve spent more time giving the gift of myself, being present for my family and less time focusing on presents.   Needless to say, there has not been much time for handmade gifts this year.  I did keep it simple but the gifts lacked the faithfilled touch that (I believe) should always be present.  That led me on a search for Holy gift tags.

I found the most charming faithfilled CATHOLIC gift tags.  They are free and printable.  Did I mention that they are FREE!!! 

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The site is Holy Reflections.  It is a creation of Mildred Lee Bozeman. 

I received my love of God from my Mother, my love of collecting from my Father, and my love for antiques from his two sisters, so it seems only natural that one day I would begin a collection of antique holy cards. These old holy card images enhance your meditation during prayers and they assist you in expressing the deepest feelings of your heart and soul to God. My holy card collection has enriched my faith, renewed my spirit, and increased my joy. That is why it is so important to me to be able to share it with you. I add prayers to the back of the scanned images, laminate them and give them away to people as gifts. I have given them to strangers, the homeless, family, and friends. It is my small way of giving back what God has given to me. Remaining always grateful to my Lord Jesus Christ whom without I can do nothing. ~ Mildred

The collection at Holy Reflections is endless!

Here are some items that I used for Christmas gift giving and wrapping…..

FREE Printable Religious Gift Tags      Prayer For Peace Card     Advent Stationary     Prayer to the Most Loving Infant Jesus     The Joys of a Divine Advent    

Here are a few more items that I have used or will be using in the very near future.

First Communion Prayer Card     The Hearts of Jesus and Mary Consecration Prayer Cards     Ava Maria Prayer Cards  Our Lady of Perpetual Help      Adoration   Holy Souls Reflections and Prayer Cards      Images from a 1870 French Catholic Prayer Book  FREE Printable Stationary  Antique Holy Card Slide Show    

ENJOY AND SHARE IN THE BLESSINGS!

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Check out Holy Reflections FaceBook Page for site updates.

Mildred also provided a link to her friend’s site.  Julie Brown offers an additional array of antique holy cards for a fee at Holy Cards.

Christmas Anticipation Prayer

December 1, 2009 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Advent, Prayer, St. Andrew Leave a Comment

Jan Brueghel the Elder. Landscape on the Coast, with the Calling of St. Peter and St. Andrew
 
Beginning on St. Andrew the Apostle’s feast day, November 30, the following beautiful prayer is traditionally recited fifteen times a day until Christmas. This is a very meditative prayer that helps us increase our awareness of the real focus of Christmas and helps us prepare ourselves spiritually for His coming.
 
 
(It is piously believed that whoever recites the above prayer fifteen times a day from the feast of St. Andrew (30th November) until Christmas will obtain what is asked.)
 
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+MICHAEL AUGUSTINE, Archbishop of New York
New York, February 6, 1897
 
 
 
A printable novena card can be found here.  
 
 

God’s hand is present at all times….last week

October 26, 2009 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: GFG, Prayer, Spiritual Reflections

It’s been a long week full of trails and opportunity to rely solely on God’s providence. The three little ones and I became sick with a bad cold. It lingered but still we managed. Sparkles is the most pleasant sick child we have. She asks for little and rarely complains. That is until Sparkles fever persisted for 4 days. I took her in for a checkup and after a three hour visit she was diagnosed with the early stages of pneumonia. She was prescribed an antibiotic and sent home to recover. We gave thanks to God for her medical insurance (we have gone with out for some time), early diagnosis and the technology of medicine. Sparkles gave thanks for her time out with mom alone. Oh, the simple pleasures of being six.


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This time of illness in our home has been like no other. My man (dear husband) has a new schedule that requires him to be gone during the day. In the past he has worked from home. Recently, he has taken a job that allows him to maintain a night schedule and be with us during the day. My children and I are accustomed to having him with us 24/7. He is the head of the home and I couldn’t imagine our days without him. Well, Our Gracious Lord has slowly weaned me to days without him. Currently, his school schedule requires him to be gone during the day too. We will continue to adjust and rely on Our Heavenly Father to guide us.


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I had a regular check up schedule (since last month) for all my little ones on Friday, Oct. 23. I was tempted to reschedule because I didn’t want to take all the sick ones out. However, Papi woke up Friday morning not as his usual self. Needless to say, we were running late. Very late! The girls were checked and Sparkles was showing improvement but the story was not so optimistic for Papi.

He was immediately sent for a breathing treatment on a Nebulizer. This was his first treatment ever. Lets just say, it wasn’t fun. Papi is nothing like Sparkles when he is sick. He is a fighter naturally and being ill seems to give him an extra edge.


Papa’s stats after his treatment caused alarm to his doctor. She immediately sent him off for a chest x-ray and I was told that he would need to stay at the doctor’s office for 3 hours for his oxygen levels to rise. Sparkles and Sweetie were already on their second movie and although they probably wouldn’t have mind hanging around a couple more hours for a few more movies their brother, I called their Papa. He graciously agreed to pick the girls up.


Papi had his x-ray and the girls waited in the lobby with their snacks. Rose is awesome and always prepared. Praise be to God for older sisters.


Papi and I were taken directly back to the treatment room when we arrived back upstairs. The girls worked their way downstairs to be picked up by Papa. They were a little nervous to leave their brother.


Papi’s doctor meet us in the treatment room with the results from the x-ray. The news was not good. Papi had severe pneumonia in both lungs and would need to be admitted to the hospital. I gave thanks for health insurance (once again), cell phones, grandparents, medical technology and our faith.


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Last week my mother added a line to her plan for my husband. We had been sharing a cell phone for a couple years now. I don’t know how I would have been able to get in touch with him had he not had a cell since he was in class for the day.


My parents have been a great blessing to me and my family. Most recently, they have provided for us during the last two-plus years while we have been but through many trials. At first it was difficult for myself to accept their help but with spiritual direction and prayer I have been able to allow Our Lord to work through my parents. They help without ever expecting anything in return and have been patient with us during this difficult time. We pray that we can glorify God and lead our family closer to Our Lord. We also pray to be able to repay my parents for their unconditional love and generosity, in anyway the Lord permits.


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I waited at the doctor’s office for close to 2 hours before a bed became available for Papi. He took a cat nap, read every book and tried out the doctor’s office bathroom 3 times as we waited. I picked up my husband on the way to the hospital. It worked out perfectly since my husband’s school is near the hospital and our alternate car broke down earlier in the week.


Papi had not eaten lunch. We stopped for Taco Bell. Any fast food is a treat for us. He wasn’t thrilled but I knew it was our best hope for him to get something in his stomach. He’s room was ready to go when we arrived. It was the smoothest hospital/emergency visit we’ve ever had.


I was able to get half the burrito in Papi before all the necessary tubes and prodding started. He was excited about the cartoons, another treat for him.


His visit was set for one night but due to his need for oxygen, he’s stay was extended. My husband stood the night with him while a picked the girls up from Papa and Nana’s house.


We prayed for acceptance of God’s will.


In the morning as I prepared and debated if I should go to the hospital (due to all the Swine Flu out breaks), my husband called with wonderful news. Papi was able to be taken off the oxygen last night (Fri) and was going to be released after another breathing treatment.


The girls eagerly prepared the house for his return and I went to pick up my handsome boys.


He is now home recovering and almost back to himself. Praise be to God!

Easter JOY to you!

April 13, 2009 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Easter, Prayer

I wish you:
The JOY of the Risen Jesus
The JOY of Jesus is
the sunshine of His Father’s love
The JOY of Jesus is
the hope of eternal happiness
The JOY of Jesus is
the flame of burning love
Easter is this JOY and
I wish you, His JOY.
You cannot have JOY without
sacrifice – that is why Good Friday
comes before Easter.
Love for one another –is this JOY – they will know you are Mine – by the love you have for one another (Jn 13:35)
~Blessed Teresa of Calcutta

(More Lenten & Easter reflections to come!)
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Hi! I'm Lena, mama of JOYfilledfamily.
We are a traditional Catholic family striving to live for Jesus Christ in everything we do. We pray to completely surrender our will to His and to become His servants. Our mission of this blog is to share our JOY.

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