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Patronal Feast of the Altar Guild

December 27, 2022 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: 12 December Saints, Altar Guild, St. Stephen the First Martyr Leave a Comment

We celebrate the feast of St. Stephen the First Martyr with a great devotion. He is the first martyr and patron of our parish & the patron of the Confraternity that my boys are honored to be enrolled in.

Currently, we have four of our five boys serving at the altar. The oldest of the five was promoted to the highest honors of MC having studied diligently with Father’s guidance to serve as MC for Solemn High Mass. The next in line received his medal for Thurifier.  The third has advanced to Torch Bearer. The fourth is eagerly following in their footsteps.  We all look forward to when our littlest one can join them to serve at Holy Mass. 

We assisted at a Solemn High Mass for the special feast and ceremony. 

In the past, Father emphasized the next step for altar servers, the priesthood for those who answer the call to give their entire life for Christ.  And he addressed the general call for all — to serve. 

To further impress the significance of the guild and its patron to the young men and all the faithful, Father reviewed the guild’s rich symbolism. Below is a snippet of what was shared.

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Guild’s logo and motto:

Cui Servire Regnare Est

Latin for “He who serves reigns” or “To serve is to reign”.

It is in imitation of Our Lord, Who did not come to be served, but to serve. Blessed is he who serves the Lord at His Holy Altar.

CROWN OF MARTYRDOM

One of the symbols attributed to the Martyrs. It is the crowning triumph of giving one’s life completely to Christ. Saint Stephen has the distinction of being the Protomartyr, or the first Martyr to shed his blood and die for Christ and His Kingdom.

TWIN-SET OF PALMS

The Palm of Martyrdom is another symbol attributed to the Martyrs. The palm symbolizes the triumph of the spirit over the flesh in the earthly battle for eternal salvation.

CHI-RHO

An ancient monogram for the name of Christ, which combines the Greek letters X and P. It was the symbol of victory that Christ revealed to Constantine: In hoc signo vinces!” “In this sign you shall conquer!”

Red cord

The medal is hung from a red cord worn which symbolizes the blood that St. Stephen the Protomartyr shed for Christ.

➕We pray that our boys always offer themselves to God almighty, to blessed Mary, our Mother and to their holy patron, St. Stephen.

🎥An overview of the Medal Ceremony for the Guild on their patronal feast — not all altar boys were in attendance. #jffaltarguild

The Guild

December 27, 2020 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Altar Guild, St. Stephen the First Martyr, Vocations Leave a Comment

To serve at the altar, as to sing in the choir, is next to the priesthood the highest privilege which a layman can enjoy. He represents the faithful and takes a most intimate part in the rich treasures of the Church’s liturgy and ceremonial. Those sacred ceremonies should be carried out with devotion, dignity and attention to detail. – Bernard Cardinal Griffin, Archbishop of Westminster.

Every year on the feast of St. Stephen (December 26) we honor our Altar Guild who are part of the Archconfraternity of St. Stephen.


This year we have our first son receiving a medal. It’s been a long-time coming but we trust that His time is perfect. Two of his brothers are also part of the Guild and will continue to work diligently to advance. We look forward to the day when all five will be serving together.

Guild’s logo and motto:
Cui Servire Regnare Est
Latin for “He who serves reigns” or “To serve is to reign”.
It is in imitation of Our Lord, Who did not come to be served, but to serve. Blessed is he who serves the Lord at His Holy Altar.
CROWN OF MARTYRDOM
One of the symbols attributed to the Martyrs. It is the crowning triumph of giving one’s life completely to Christ. Saint Stephen has the distinction of being the Protomartyr, or the first Martyr to shed his blood and die for Christ and His Kingdom.
TWIN-SET OF PALMS
The Palm of Martyrdom is another symbol attributed to the Martyrs. The palm symbolizes the triumph of the spirit over the flesh in the earthly battle for eternal salvation.
CHI-RHO
An ancient monogram for the name of Christ, which combines the Greek letters X and P. It was the symbol of victory that Christ revealed to Constantine: In hoc signo vinces!” “In this sign you shall conquer!”

The Archconfraternity of St Stephen is an International Organization of Altar Servers which was founded as the Society of Altar Servers at the Convent of the Sacred Heart in London in 1904 by Father Hamilton McDonald. In 1905, Pope Pius X gave his approbation to the canonical establishment of the Guild of St Stephen for altar servers at Westminster Cathedral and in 1906, the Sacred Congregation of Rites made the Guild an Archconfraternity prima primaria which enabled all the parish branches to be linked with it. The Guild spread, and in 1934, Pope Pius XI enabled all Guilds of Altar Servers throughout the British Commonwealth to be affiliated with the Archconfraternity at Westminster.

The objectives of the Guild

To encourage, positively and practically, the highest standards of serving at the Church’s liturgy and so contribute to the whole community’s participation in a more fruitful worship of God. To provide altar servers with a greater understanding of what they are doing so that they may serve with increasing reverence and prayerfulness and thereby be led to a deepening response to their vocation in life. To unite servers of different parishes and dioceses for their mutual support and encouragement


Ceremony of the Enrollment of Altar Guild Members (abbreviated)

After the Credo, the candidates will kneel, facing the altar, on the floor of the sanctuary. The priest, will stand facing them on the predella. Two servers will stand nearby, bearing the medals on a tray and the holy water.

V. Adjutorium nostrum in nomine Domini.
Our help is in the name of the Lord.


R. Qui fecit coelum et terram.
Who hath made heaven and earth

…Server: With the help of God, I do so promise.
Server(s): I offer myself to God Almighty, to Blessed Mary ever Virgin and to our Holy Patron, Saint Stephen, and I promise to do my best to serve reverently, intelligently and punctually, having the glory of God and my own eternal salvation as my object.



Blessing of Medals

Oremus.
Domine Deus virtutem, bonorum largitor, et benedictionum infusor, te humiliter deprecamur ut haec numismata bene  dicere et sancti  ficare digneris: suppliciter rogantes ut famuli tui qui eadem in notam Al- taris reverentur inserviendi volunt induere, tibi officium pie et fideliter exequantur, et tandem ad te, coram Altari sublimi in Caelis, tuae gloriae participes perveniant gaudentes. Qui vivis et regnas, etc.
R. Amen.


Let us pray.
O Lord, God of hosts, bestower of all good things and giver of every blessing, humbly we beseech Thee that Thou wouldst vouchsafe to bless  and to sanctify  these medals; do Thou grant we beseech Thee, that Thy servants who wish to wear them as a token of their devout service at Thine Altar, may faithfully and reverently fulfill their duties to Thee until at length being made partakers of Thy glory, they may joyfully come to Thee before Thy heavenly Altar. Who livest and reignest, etc.
R. Amen.

He sprinkles the medals with holy water.

The candidates will now advance in turn and kneel on the predella. While conferring the medal the priest will say:

Accipe signum aggregationis ad sodalitatem Sancti Stephani, ut eo jugiter interveniente, vitam sanctam ducere valeas. Amen.

Receive the token of your admission into the Guild of Saint Stephen that, ever aided by his intercession, you may lead a holy life. Amen.

After enrollment, the candidates will genuflect to the Blessed Sacrament and return by the sides of the Altar to their place on the lowest step or on the floor of the sanctuary

Oremus.
Domine Jesu Christe, qui non venisti ministrari sed ministrare, qui stans in virtus Dei dextera ostendisti beato Stephano claritate fulgida ad- mirabilem tuam gloriam, concede, quaesumus, ministris tuis ut eadem fide qua ille, te colant celatum in augusto Sacramento, dum sanctis altaribus tuis fideliter subministrent, et accende corda eorum et mentes ad amorem gratiae tuae.
Qui vivis et regnas, etc.
Amen.

Let us pray.
O Lord Jesus Christ, Who didst come not to be ministered unto but to minister, and Who standing at the right hand of the power of God, didst manifest to Saint Stephen the radiant light of Thy wonderful glory: Grant to Thy servants, we beseech Thee, that while faithfully serving Thy holy Altars, they may, with faith like to his, worship Thee hidden in Thine adorable Sacra- ment, and in their hearts and their minds, do Thou, O Lord, enkindle the love of Thy grace.
Who livest and reignest, etc.
Amen.

Making the Sign of the Cross over the newly admitted servers, the priest says:


Bene  dicat vos Deus, et custodiat corda vestra et intelligentias vestras, Pater, et Filius et Spiritus Sanctus. Amen.

May God the Father, Son and Holy Ghost, bless you and safeguard you in heart and mind. Amen.

The priest then sprinkles the servers with holy water, after which, they return to their places (in choir.)


The Guild’s namesake
patron is St. Stephen
the Protomartyr, the
first to shed his blood for
Christ, and one of the Church’s first deacons

Guild Prayer

(To be recited daily)

O God, Who dost graciously accept the ministry of Thy servants and allow us to share in the service of Thine Altar: grant that, whilst in serving Thee we follow the example of our Patron, Saint Stephen, the first Martyr, we may, like him, come to see Thy Son standing at the right hand of Thy Majesty, and so enter into the Kingdom of Our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, Who livest and reignest with Thee in the unity of the Holy Ghost, God, world without end. Amen.


Hail Mary

Saint Stephen, Pray for us.

Saint Pius X, Pray for us.

St. Stephen’s Altar Guild

December 27, 2018 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: 12 December, Altar Guild, St. Stephen the First Martyr Leave a Comment

St Stephen’s Feast Day

The name Stephen means “crown”, and St Stephen was the first disciple of Jesus to receive the martyr’s crown. Stephen was a deacon in the early Christian Church. The Apostles had found that they needed helpers to look after the care of the widows and the poor. So they ordained seven deacons, and Stephen is the most famous of these.

Our Parish celebrates our Altar Guild today as they belong to the St. Stephen’s Altar Guild Society.

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The objectives of the Guild:

To encourage, positively and practically, the highest standards of serving at the Church’s liturgy and so contribute to the whole community’s participation in a more fruitful worship of God. To provide altar servers with a greater understanding of what they are doing so that they may serve with increasing reverence and prayerfulness and thereby be led to a deepening response to their vocation in life. To unite servers of different parishes and dioceses for their mutual support and encouragement.

GUILD PRAYER

(to be recited daily)

O GOD, Who dost graciously accept the ministry of Thy servants and allow us to share in the service of Thine Altar: grant that, whilst in serving Thee we follow the example of our Patron, Saint Stephen, the first Martyr, we may, like him, come to see Thy Son standing at the right hand of Thy Majesty, and so enter into the Kingdom of Our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, Who livest and reignest with Thee in the unity of the Holy Ghost, God, world without end.

Amen.

Hail Mary

Saint Stephen, Pray for us.

St. Stephen’s Feast Day Reflection

December 26, 2018 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: 12 December Saints, St. Stephen the First Martyr Leave a Comment

DECEMBER 26
SAINT STEPHEN, THE FIRST MARTYR
Dom Prosper Guéranger


St. Peter Damian thus begins his Sermon for this Feast: “We are holding in our arms the Son of the Virgin, and are honouring, with our caresses, this our Infant God. The holy Virgin has led us to the dear Crib. The most beautiful of the Daughters of men has brought us to the most beautiful among the Sons of men, [Ps. xliv. 3.] and the Blessed among women to Him that is Blessed above all. She tell us … that now the veils of prophecy are drawn aside, and the counsel of God is accomplished. … Is there anything capable of distracting us from this sweet Birth? On what else shall we fix our eyes? … Lo! whilst Jesus is permitting us thus to caress him; whilst he is overwhelming us with the greatness of these mysteries, and our hearts are riveted in admiration – there comes before us Stephen full of grace and fortitude, doing great wonders and signs among the people. [Acts, vi. 8.] Is it right, that we turn from our King, to look on Stephen, his soldier? No – unless the King himself bid us do so. This our King, who is Son of the King, rises … to assist at the glorious combat of his servant. … Let us go with him, and contemplate this standard-bearer of the Martyrs.”

The Church gives us, in to-day’s Office, this opening of a Sermon of St. Fulgentius for the Feast of St. Stephen: “Yesterday, we celebrated the temporal Birth of our eternal King: to-day, we celebrate the triumphant passion of his Soldier. Yesterday, our King, having put on the garb of our flesh, came from the sanctuary of his Mother’s virginal womb, and mercifully visited the earth: to-day, his Soldier, quitting his earthly tabernacle, entered triumphantly into heaven. Jesus, whilst still continuing to be the eternal God, assumed to himself the lowly raiment of flesh, and entered the battle-field of this world: Stephen, laying aside the perishable garment of the body, ascended to the palace of heaven, there to reign for ever. Jesus descended veiled in our flesh: Stephen ascended wreathed with a martyr’s laurels. Stephen ascended to heaven amidst the shower of stones, because Jesus had descended on earth midst the singing of Angels. Yesterday, the holy Angels exultingly sang, Glory be to God in the highest; to-day, they joyously received Stephen into their company. … Yesterday, was Jesus wrapped, for our sakes, in swaddling-clothes: to-day, was Stephen clothed with the robe of immortal glory. Yesterday, a narrow crib contained the Infant Jesus: to-day, the immensity of the heavenly court received the triumphant Stephen.”

Thus does the sacred Liturgy blend the joy of our Lord’s Nativity with the gladness she feels at the triumph of the first of her Martyrs. Nor will Stephen be the only one admitted to share the honours of this glorious Octave. After him, we shall have John, the Beloved Disciple; the Innocents of Bethlehem; Thomas, the Martyr of the Liberties of the Church; and Sylvester, the Pontiff of Peace. But, the place of honour amidst all who stand round the Crib of the new-born King, belongs to Stephen, the Proto-Martyr, who, as the Church sings of him, was the first to pay back to the Saviour, the Death suffered by the Saviour. It was just, that this honour should be shown to Martyrdom; for, Martyrdom is the Creature’s testimony, and return to his Creator for all the favours bestowed on him: it is Man’s testifying, even by shedding his blood, to the truths which God has revealed to the world.

In order to understand this, let us consider what is the plan of God, in the salvation he has given to man. The Son of God is sent to instruct mankind; he sows the seed of his divine word; and his works give testimony to his divinity. But, after his sacrifice on the cross, he again ascends to the right hand of his Father; so that his own testimony of himself has need of a second testimony, in order to its being received by them that have neither seen nor heard Jesus himself. Now, it is the Martyrs who are to provide this second testimony; and this they will do, not only by confessing Jesus with their lips, but by shedding their blood for him. The Church, then, is to be founded by the Word and the Blood of Jesus, the Son of God; but she will be upheld, she will continue throughout all ages, she will triumph over all obstacles, by the blood of her Martyrs, the members of Christ: this their blood will mingle with that of their Divine Head, and their sacrifice be united to his.

The Martyrs shall bear the closest resemblance to their Lord and King. They shall be, as he said, like lambs among wolves. [St Luke, x. 3.] The world shall be strong, and they shall be weak and defenceless: so much the grander will be the victory of the Martyrs, and the greater the glory of God who gives them to conquer. The Apostle tells us, that Christ crucified is the power and the wisdom of God [I Cor. i. 24.]; – the Martyrs, immolated, and yet conquerors of the world, will prove, and with a testimony which even the world itself will understand, that the Christ whom they confessed, and who gave them constancy and victory, is in very deed the power and the wisdom of God. We repeat, then – it is just, that the Martyrs should share in all the triumphs of the Man-God, and that the liturgical Cycle should glorify them as does the Church herself, who puts their sacred Relics in her altar-stones; for, thus, the Sacrifice of their glorified Lord and Head is never celebrated, without they themselves being offered together with him, in the unity of his mystical Body.

Now, the glorious Martyr-band of Christ is headed by St. Stephen. His name signifies the Crowned; – a conqueror like him could not be better named. He marshals, in the name of Christ, the white-robed army, as the Church calls the Martyrs; for, he was the first, even before the Apostles themselves, to receive the summons, and right nobly did he answer it. Stephen courageously bore witness, in the presence of the Jewish Synagogue, to the divinity of Jesus of Nazareth; by thus proclaiming the Truth, he offended the ears of the unbelievers; the enemies of God, became the enemies of Stephen, and, rushing upon him, they stone him to death. Amidst the pelting of the blood-drawing missives, he, like a true soldier, flinches not, but stands, (as St. Gregory of Nyssa so beautifully describes it,) as though snow-flakes were falling on him, or roses were covering him with the shower of their kisses. Through the cloud of stones, he sees the glory of God; – Jesus, for whom he was laying down his life, showed himself to his Martyr, and the Martyr again rendered testimony to the divinity of our Emmanuel, but with all the energy of a last act of love. Then, to make his sacrifice complete, he imitates his divine Master, and prays for his executioners: falling on his knees, he begs that this sin be not laid to their charge. Thus, all is consummated – the glorious type of Martyrdom is created, and shown to the world, that it may be imitated, by every generation, to the end of time, until the number of the Martyrs of Christ shall be filled up. Stephen sleeps in the Lord, and is buried in peace – in pace – until his sacred Tomb shall be discovered, and his glory be celebrated a second time in the whole Church, by that anticipated Resurrection of the miraculous Invention of his Relics.

Stephen, then, deserves to stand near the Crib of his King, as leader of those brave champions, the Martyrs, who died for the Divinity of that Babe, whom we adore. Let us join the Church in praying to our Saint, that he help us to come to our Sovereign Lord, now lying on his humble throne in Bethlehem. Let us ask him to initiate us into the mystery of that divine Infancy, which we are all bound to know and imitate. It was from the simplicity he had learnt from that Mystery, that he heeded not the number of the enemies he had to fight against, nor trembled at their angry passion, nor winced under their blows, nor hid from them the Truth and their crimes, nor forgot to pardon them and pray for them. What a faithful imitator of the Babe of Bethlehem! Our Jesus did not send his Angels to chastise those unhappy Bethlehemites, who refused a shelter to the Virgin-Mother, who in a few hours was to give birth to Him, the Son of David. He stays not the fury of Herod, who plots his Death – but meekly flees into Egypt, like some helpless bondsman, escaping the threats of a tyrant lordling. But, it is under such apparent weakness as this, that he will show his Divinity to men, and He the Infant-God prove himself the Strong God. Herod will pass away, so will his tyranny; Jesus will live, greater in his Crib, where he makes a King tremble, than is, under his borrowed majesty, this prince-tributary of Rome; nay, than Caesar-Augustus himself, whose world-wide empire has no other destiny than this – to serve as handmaid to the Church, which is to be founded by this Babe, whose name stands humbly written in the official registry of Bethlehem.

Parish Hoedown

August 31, 2013 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Family Night, Parish, St. Stephen the First Martyr 2 Comments

We ended the summer with a splendid family event at our parish.  The SS annual pig roast and square dance was a glorious way to end the summer and have Rose say farewell to her parish community. 

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You can’t take the girls out of the dance tent.  The “hoedown” is one of their highlights of each year. 

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P8041259The boys saved their first dance for the last dance.     P8041281

They danced the night away, 10 PM to be exact. 

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