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December 18, 2020 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Libertas Leave a Comment

The truth of the matter is that we’ve been giving away our information (access to our personal lives) long ago. I once worked in a Multi-media research firm in the hub of Silicon Valley, we studied all things pertaining to marketing & technology. Let’s just say, there is not much that surprises me regarding the ability of tech and the scope of access that one allows for the sake of entertainment, convenience, discounts, or fill-in-the-blank.

I remember once warning mothers not to use the grocery store rewards cards for all its implications. The cable devices, online subscriptions, email providers, and the like have always been collecting personal information. Needless to say, things have rapidly changed since the earliest days of the internet and digital intelligence. But did we really think that it would all be FREE or that our privacy was guaranteed?

Goodness, people are voluntarily walking around with tracking devices (smart watches). It’s no longer just a phone that one can isolate for use (even though it can never fully be turned off from accessing you). Not to mention that majority of the apps used on the phone grant an enormous scope of access to personal information.

So, there’s a new policy that reads like an Orwellian book and we’re surprised?!?

Maybe it’s your line.

Maybe you’re still discerning.

Maybe you’re too attached either way.

Whatever it may be, I give you the words of a Priest who I shared my concerns of tech privacy issues with, years ago (stemming from the biometrics ability of a top email provider/tech company, social media data collecting, and navigation app). He simply stated, “Our Lord tells us (in scripture) that all things will be made known in the end-times. What are you hiding?”

Those words continue to sit with me through my own (constant) discernment.

There are plenty of wise counsels from the saints on the particulars of making a decision. I’m partial to a certain method of discernment.

It all boils down to what matters most — OUR SALVATION!

When discerning any decision, we must ultimately answer the question, Does this help or hinder my own salvation (and those which have been entrusted to me)?

There is no doubt that we have much to discern in our current times.

May we properly discern and do what is necessary for our salvation. May we not move in fear or lose peace. May we not hold any attachments. May we keep our eyes on His Holy Cross and seek His Kingdom, only!

O CHRIST, JESUS, I acknowledge Thee as Universal King. All that has been made, has been created for Thee. Exercise over me all Thy rights. I renew my baptismal promises; I renounce Satan, his pumps and his works; and I promise to live a good Christian life. In particular I pledge myself to labor, to the best of my ability, for the triumph of the rights of God and of Thy church.

Last Week of Advent {Silence}

December 17, 2020 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Advent, Fourth Week of Advent, O Antiphons Leave a Comment

Liturgical living for us has changed over the years as we have become dominated by boys. But the silence remains an important aspect that we seek to maintain (even if it only last for short intervals).

How are you observing this last week of Advent?

”O Mary, like an aqueduct, bring to our soul the waters of grace. When our soul has received a little more life, it will once again be able to bear fruit.” ~ Family Prayer Booklet for Advent

Advent Men’s Recollection

December 14, 2020 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Advent, Fr. Isaac Mary Relyea Leave a Comment

Most of us are not able to attend an Advent retreat or day of recollection as we always have in previous Advent seasons. Let us not forgo this pious and necessary practice.

Below is a link for an Advent Men’s recollection. Listen to it! Share it with your beloved! Pass it it along for others.

Let us finish our Advent strong as we further prepare for His coming!

Soldiers of the Immaculate

Advent is a season specially devoted to the exercises of what is called the purgative life, which is implied in that expression of St. John, so continually repeated by the Church during this holy time: Prepare ye the way of the Lord! Let all, therefore, strive earnestly to make straight the path by which Jesus will enter into their souls. Let the just, agreeably to the teaching of the apostle, forget the things that are behind [Phil. iii. 13], and labour to acquire fresh merit. Let sinners begin at once and break the chains which now enslave them. Let them give up those bad habits which they have contracted. Let them weaken the flesh, and enter upon the hard work of subjecting it to the spirit. Let them, above all things, pray with the Church. And when our Lord comes, they may hope that He will not pass them by, but that He will enter and dwell within them; for He spoke of all when He said these words: ‘Behold I stand at the gate and knock: if any man shall hear My voice will open to Me the door, I will come in unto him.’ [Apoc. ii. 20]. ~ Dom Prosper Gueranger, The Liturgical Year

Silence In & Out Of Season

December 13, 2020 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Advent, Ignatian Silent Retreat, Retreat, Uncategorized Leave a Comment

Last week, in the spirit of peace, I entered into a deeper silence. It was glorious and challenging in the right ways. I give thanks for God’s grace and the dedication of my husband to sacrifice for my own salvation. This coming week will be his turn. Deo gratias!

He did an amazing job taking over all the duties — even if he missed the Jesse Tree readings which I spent hours making assessable for him, skipping the ornaments which were already catalogued by date, or forgoing our Advent Mediations which I sent to him and all the big children before going away and being completely off the grid.

All those things may have been sidelined last week but I trust that it was God’s will for my family to be drawn deeper into a silence of their own — silence which helps cultivates a peace, true peace that only Christ can bring.

He did work from home while tending to their schooling, helped our oldest daughter with her home, kept all the meals going (with some help form Papa & Nana and our resident chef), Holy Day obligation was met, our traditional Marian feastday breakfast (even if it was for dinner), took the girls gift shopping for an impromptu surprise party, prayed our regular daily family devotions and a few Advent staples, washed clothes, cleaned the house, prepped for feast days, and so much more.

I give thanks for his steadfast love which counts no cost and does what is necessary — all for the love of God.

Today, Gaudete Sunday, we are filled with Joy, knowing that the Christ Child is so near. As #domprospergueranger reminds us, “Tomorrow we will resume our attitude of servants mourning for the absence of their Lord and waiting for Him; for every delay, however short, is painful and makes love sad.”

Today, Gaudete Sunday, we are filled with Joy, knowing that the Christ Child is so near. As #domprospergueranger reminds us, “Tomorrow we will resume our attitude of servants mourning for the absence of their Lord and waiting for Him; for every delay, however short, is painful and makes love sad.”

We will go deeper into silence for further preparation of the Chirist-child, to more fully prepare our hearts as a gift to Him.

Next week will be his turn for a silent retreat and I will continue where he left off for the children. Then we will make the last week of Advent a family retreat of our own.

A Vow for the Upcoming Feast of the Immaculate Conception

December 6, 2020 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Advent, Immaculate Conception Leave a Comment

We prepare to enter deeper into silence this Advent and greatly appreciated the good shepherds that continue to be about the business of their God given duties.

Below is an excerpt of a powerful reflection & vow from Archbishop Vigano for the upcoming feast of the Immaculate Conception.

“The Church of Catholics, …that loves those who honor themselves with the name of Christian, …does not retreat before civil authority, thereby making herself an accomplice and courtesan of it, but rather the Church that endures persecution with courage and a supernatural gaze, knowing that it is better to die amidst the most atrocious torments than to offend the Most Blessed Virgin and Her Divine Son.

She is the Church that does not…

remain silent when the tyrant defies the Majesty of God, afflicts her subjects, and betrays the justice and authority that legitimizes it.

yield in the face of blackmail nor allow herself to be seduced by power or money.

She is the Church that ascends Calvary, as the Mystical Body of Christ, in order to complete in her own members the sufferings of the Redeemer and to rise again triumphantly with Him.

She is the Church who assists the weak and the oppressed with mercy and charity, while she stands fearless and terrible in the face of the arrogant and the proud.

…We have the promise of Mary Most Holy: “In the end, my Immaculate Heart will triumph.”

Let us bow before that heart, which beats with the most pure Charity, so that the flame of that holy love may reflect on each one of us, so that the flame which burns in it may illuminate our minds and make them capable of grasping the signs of the times.

And if our Shepherds are silent out of fear or complicity, the multitude of lay people and good souls have the opportunity to compensate for their betrayal and expiate their sins, invoking the Mercy of God who “has come to the help of his servant, Israel, remembering his mercy” (Lk 1:54).

Today the high priests of this modern Sanhedrin outrage Our Lord and His Most Holy Mother, complacent servants of the globalist élite who want to establish the kingdom of Satan; tomorrow they will retreat before the victory of the Virgo Potens, who will restore the Holy Church and will give peace and harmony to society, thanks to the prayers and sacrifices of so many of her humble and unknown children.

May this be our vow for the upcoming Feast of the Immaculate Conception, with which to honor Our Lady and Queen.”

You can read the full address from Carlo Maria Viganò, Archbishop, here.

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Hi! I'm Lena, mama of JOYfilledfamily.
We are a traditional Catholic family striving to live for Jesus Christ in everything we do. We pray to completely surrender our will to His and to become His servants. Our mission of this blog is to share our JOY.

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