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Charity is…

March 12, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Charity, Meditation, Quotes

 …a friendship between God and man. ~ Fr. Ripperger

Only in truth does charity shine forth, only in truth can charity be authentically lived. Truth is the light that gives meaning and value to charity. ~ Pope Benedict XVI, Caritas In Veritate

Charity is only possible with sanctifying grace.The two cannot be separated.  ~ Fr. Lyons

Charity is the only thing that has value.  ~ Fr. Lyonscharity

At the end of our life, we shall all be judged by charity. ~ St. John of the Cross

Charity is a love of friendship, a friendship of choice, a choice of preference, but an incomparable, a sovereign, and supernatural preference which is like a sun in the whole soul, to embellish it with its rays; in all our spiritual faculties to perfect them; in all our powers to moderate them; but in the will, as its seat, to reside there, and to make it cherish and love its God above all things. ~ Saint Francis de Sales, Doctor of the Church

Charity is the queen of all virtues. “If you see Charity, you see the Trinity” says St. Augustine. Without it even if one speaks the language of angels it is like “sounding brass or a clanging cymbal” (Cf. 1 Cor 13: 1-13). It is a very delicate virtue which is like salt in the food. No wonder saints like St. Thérèse of Lisieux resolved to do ordinary things with extraordinary love and not the other way round. The following is a litany to ask forgiveness for the many daily failures in charity, as we know that even the just person falls seven times a day. ~ Father Sebastian Vazhakala M.C.

Charity unites us to God… There is nothing mean in charity, nothing arrogant. Charity knows no schism, does not rebel, does all things in concord. In charity all the elect of God have been made perfect. ~ Pope St. Clement I

All our religion is but a faimagesCALNENZKlse religion, and all our virtues are mere illusions and we ourselves are only hypocrites in the sight of God, if we have not that universal charity for everyone – for the good, and for the bad, for the poor and for the rich, and for all those who do us harm as much as those who do us good.  ~ Saint John Vianney

True charity consists in doing good to those who do us evil, and in thus winning them over.  ~Saint Alphonsus Liguori

To leave our prayer when we are called to do some act of charity for our neighbor, is not really a quitting of prayer, but leaving Christ for Christ. Even in the midst of a crowd we can be going on to perfection. ~ -Saint Philip Neri

"If I . . . have not charity," says the Apostle, "I am nothing." Whatever my privilege, service, or even virtue, "if I . . . have not charity, I gain nothing."103 Charity is superior to all the virtues. It is the first of the theological virtues: "So faith, hope, charity abide, these three. But the greatest of these is charity.” ~ CCC 1826

By charity, we love God above all things and our neighbor as ourselves for love of God. Charity, the form of all the virtues, "binds everything together in perfect harmony" (Col 3:14). ~ CCC 1844

I conjure you, my daughters, to preserve a strict watch over your tongues, and never to pronounce before your children one single word that is contrary to charity. ~  Monsignor P. Lejeune, Counsels of Perfection for CHRISTIAN MOTHERS

Charity is the queen of virtues. As the pearls are held together by the thread, thus the virtues by charity; and as the pearls fall when the thread breaks, thus the virtues are lost if charity diminishes. ~ Saint Padre Pio of Pietrelcina

St. Paul’s Short Examination of Conscience Regarding Charity (as noted by Fr. Lyons):  Charity is patient, charity is kind. It is not jealous, (love) is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Charity never fails. If there are prophecies, they will be brought to nothing; if tongues, they will cease; if knowledge, it will be brought to nothing. ~ 1 Corinthians 13 4-8

Charity is that with which no one is lost, and without which no one is sa5salzbu1ved. also The school of Christ is the school of charity. On the last day, when the general examination takes place, there will be no question at all on the text of Aristotle, the aphorisms of Hippocrates, or the paragraphs of Justinian. Charity will be the whole syllabus. ~ St. Robert Bellarmine

Be driven by the love of God because Jesus Christ died for all, that those who live may live not for themselves but for Him, who died and rose for them. Above all, let your charity and zeal show how you love the Church. Your work is for the Church, which is the Body of Christ. ~ Saint John Baptist de La Salle

“‘Make me to know your ways, O Lord, teach me your paths’ (Ps 24:4). We ask the Lord to guide us, to show us his footprints, so we can set out to attain the fullness of his commandments, which is charity.” ~ Saint Josemaría Escriva, Christ is Passing By

The divine seed of charity, which God has sown in our souls, wants to grow, to express itself in action, to yield results which continually coincide with what God wants. ~ Saint Josemaría Escriva, Christ is Passing By, 58

May you know how to put yourself out cheerfully, discreetly and generously each day, serving others and making their lives more pleasant. To act in this way is to practise the true charity of Jesus Christ. ~ Saint Josemaría Escriva, The Forge, 150

We must give alms. Charity wins souls and draws them to virtue. ~ St. Angela Merici

If God gives you an abundant harvest of trials, it is a sign of great holiness which He desires you to attain. Do you want to become a great saint? Ask God to send you many sufferings. The flame of Divine Love never rises higher than when fed with the wood of the Cross, which the infinite charity of the Savior used to finish His sacrifice. All the pleasures of the world are nothing compared with theChristCarriesCrossArt1 sweetness found in the gall and vinegar offered to Jesus Christ. That is, hard and painful things endured for Jesus Christ and with Jesus Christ.  ~ Saint Ignatius of Loyola

Peace is the work of justice indirectly, in so far as justice removes the obstacles to peace; but it is the work of charity (love) directly, since charity, according to its very notion, causes peace. ~ St. Thomas Aquinas    

For if we are bidden to honor carnal fathers and mothers, how much more the spiritual? . . . If this virtue of charity has been overlooked, a man will lose any fruit of salvation in any good he may do. ~ Pope Saint Gregory VII, 1020-1085 AD

It is by the path of love, which is charity, that God draws near to man, and man to God. But where charity is not found, God cannot dwell. If, then, we possess charity, we possess God, for "God is Charity" (1 John 4:8) ~ Saint Albert the Great

Hold in your hand the lantern of Faith; and let the flame of Charity shine from it, to show you what you must do, and what you must avoid. ~ -Saint Augustine, Father and Doctor of the Church

O Sacrament of Love! O sign of Unity! O bond of Charity! He who would have Life finds here indeed a Life to live in and a Life to live by. ~ St Augustine

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RESOURCES:

  • Caritas In Veritate – Encyclical Letter of the Supreme Pontiff Benedict XVI
  • Charity Litany
  • Recollection & Sermon on Charity – Audio from Sensus Traditionis.  (Effects of Charity)
  • Audio Sermons on Charity – Audio Sancto

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Actus Caritatis
Domine Deus, amo te super omnia proximum meum propter te, quia tu es summum, infinitum, et perfectissimum bonum, omni dilectione dignum. In hac caritate vivere et mori statuo. Amen.

Act of Charity
O my God! I love Thee above all things, with my whole heart and soul, because Thou art all-good and worthy of all love. I love my neighbor as myself for the love of Thee. I forgive all who have injured me, and ask pardon of all whom I have injured.

Heroic Act of Charity

O my God, in union with the merits of Jesus and Mary, I offer Thee for the Souls in Purgatory, all my Satisfactory Works, as well as those which may be applied to me by others during my life and after my death. And so as to be more agreeable to the Divine Heart of Jesus and more helpful to the departed I place them all in the hands of the merciful Virgin Mary. Amen

Start Lacing Up

March 10, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Catholic Products, Nun Run, Running, Team ALL FOR

There is some excitement in the air during this sober time of Lent.  Two more days until race day! 

Have you received your t-shirts and race numbers?  Are you ready?

Be sure to record your race day.  I will create a linky for everyone to share their race day fun and results. 

You can still register.  Info can be found here.

Team ALL FOR!

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Check back later for more details on giveaways from the below supporters of Team ALL FOR!

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Far from a typical fitness-oriented book, The Catholic Workout involves performing five specific resistance exercises while meditating on important events in the Life, Death and Resurrection of Jesus Christ. Michael Carrera leads by example, offering guidance through his touching stories and confessions. All you need is a Rosary, a set of dumbbells, and thirty minutes, three times a week to get the body and life you always wanted!

 

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Romantic Catholic is a group  of enthusiastic believers who offer appealing Catholic apparel – with the hope of spreading the Gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ as a result of great love to his Holy Catholic Church.

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This program is unique. The Rosary Workout incorporates the fundamental principles of exercise physiology. It applies the science of interval training and periodization to provide over 100 varied and challenging workouts carefully designed to improve fitness and prevent injury. At the same time, the program focuses on exercising the “muscles of the spirit” through Rosary prayer and meditation.

Mamas Movin' With Mary

Mama’s Movin’ with Mary have a mission to Strengthen your Body, Strengthen your Soul.  They seek to inspire others to take time for themselves and “Get Movin’ With Mary”.

Resurrection Eggs

March 9, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Crafts, Lent

 

 

SUPPLIES:

  • cardboard egg carton (styrofoam does not take well to paint) 
  • purple paint
  • paint brush
  • 12 plastic eggs
  • purple sharpie
  • glue stick
  • printed carton cover
  • printed narration
  • scissors
  • 2 pieces of small plastic wrap
  • egg contents
    • 1 – aluminum foil cut into 30 small pieces.
    • 2 – plastic chalice (can be found at your local Catholic supply store or party store)
    • 2 – pita bread cut into a small circle
    • 3 – olive pits or olive branch
    • 4 – 2 sticks
    • 5 – string/twine
    • 6 – thorns from a rush bush
    • 7 – purple cloth
    • 8 – sticks and string
    • 9 – 3 nails
    • 10 – cut sponge
    • 11 – white cloth
    • 12 – this egg will remain empty

DIRECTIONS:

paint the outside of the egg carton with purple paint

print, cut and color the carton cover.  glue it to the top of the egg carton

Resurrection Eggs - Carton Cover

label the plastic eggs #1-12

insert the egg’s contents

  • 1 – cut and roll 30 pieces of aluminum foil.  wrap with plastic wrap
  • 2 – plastic chalice.  cut pita bread and wrap with plastic wrap.  (my pita bread has lasted for years w/o mold)
  • 3 – olive pits or olive branch
  • 4 – 2 sticks
  • 5 – tie several pieces of string/twine together
  • 6 – thorns from a rush bush
  • 7 – purple cloth
  • 8 – create a cross using the sticks and string
  • 9 – 3 nails
  • 10 – cut a small piece of sponge and mark it with a purple sharpie
  • 11 – white cloth
  • 12 – this egg will remain empty

print narration onto purple paper.  fold.  insert into egg carton.

Resurrection Eggs - Narration

 

share, recite and meditate as desired.

 

Lenten Calendar & Family Lenten Program

March 9, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Lent

JOYfilledfamily Lenten Calendar 2011 16x20

My Lenten Calendar Inspiration – Shower of Roses

This year’s Lenten calendar has slightly changed from last year.
I print my calendar at Costco Photo in 16×20 ($5.99) for the family down stairs and 8×10 ($1.49) for bedrooms upstairs.
Here is the link to the PDF version of my 2011 Lenten Calendar.  I’d be more than happy to share the digital file with anyone who is interested. 
Email me your request – JOYfilledfamily{at}gmail{dot}com.
**UPDATE** I’m happy to share this Lenten Calendar for your personal use.  I will gladly send out the 2011 Lenten Calendar – JPEG file at any time in the Lenten Season.  Please do not hesitate to ask.  It’s never too late!

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Not much has changed in our Lenten program this year.  As always, we look to simplify.  We use free resources or resources we already have on hand.
Family Goals For Lent:*

  • Grow in CHARITY
    • Be Charitable.Be Useful. Be Gentle. Be Joyful. Forget about self. ALL FOR!
  • Increase prayer life and grow in devotion to Our Blessed Mother
  • Learn more about the lives of the saints
  • Reclaim our family Adoration time
  • Clean physical house by simplifying and purging
  • Clean spiritual house by almsgiving, works of mercy, and spiritual readings  

*these are in addition to our personal Lenten programs
Lenten Activities: listed on the calendar

  • Lent for Children: A Thought a Day (daily)
  • Update the bean jar for sacrifices/almsgiving (daily)
  • Review personal Lenten program chart (daily)
  • Pick Cleaning item out of jar & perform assigned task from the Lenten Cleaning Calendar (Mon.-Sat.)
  • Adoration (Thursday)
  • Stations of the Cross (Friday)
  • Select family almsgiving activity for the week (Sun.)

in addition to the children’s collection for the Bishop G’s Maternity Home and simplifying our home by donating new and old items to the homeless shelters.

  • visit the elderly/sick in the rest home
  • pray at the abortion clinic
  • provide service to the pregnancy resource center
  • cook meal for Father
  • cook meal or invite family to home for meal
  • invite someone to Mass
  • provide additional service to Parish

Daily Prayer Intention:

  • Mon – End to Abortion
  • Tue – Conversion of Family
  • Wed – Godparents & Godchildren
  • Thur – Pope Benedict XVI & Priests
  • Fri – Souls in Purgatory
  • Sat – Vocations
  • Sun – Poor, homeless, and those in great need

Lenten Resources:
kids

  • Lent for Children A Thought a Day – PDF for print by Family Feast and Feria.
  • Stations of the Cross – B&W set for kids by Family Feast and Feria. The littles will color the card sets.
  • Lenten Adventures – Holy Heroes
  • The Way of the Cross for Children Video – by Pro Multis Media featuring the traditional Stations of the Cross and the Stabat Mater.
  • Resurrection Eggs – complete tutorial

teens & adults

  • Lenten Journey – online interactive resource with meditations from Pope Benedict XVI and Blessed Mother Teresa of Calcutta
  • Lent & Easter 2011 – EWTN
  • Lenten Workshop – Catholic Culture
  • Stations of the Cross – Bl. Mother Teresa of Calcutta
  • Meditations for Lent from St. Thomas Aquinas (1917)
  • Audio Sancto Sermons
  • Audio Sermons & Meditations – Sensus Traditionis
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Now it is only right that, before we arrive at that glory of impassibility and immortality which began in Christ, and which was acquired for us through Christ, we should be shaped after the pattern of Christ’s sufferings.  It is then only right that Christ’s liability to suffer should remain in us too for a time, as a means of our coming to the impassibility of glory in the way He himself came to it. ~Meditations For Lent – St. Thomas Aquinas,  (1-2 85 5 ad 2.)
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Prayers for a blessed and fruitful Lenten Season.
Pax Christi,

No Flower More Fair

March 9, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Birthday, Friends, Girls, Rose, Rose GFG

Rose will be 16 on March 29.  Dad and I asked her what she would like to do for her birthday.  She asked to have her annual bday retreat with me.  I assured her that we would go on retreat and that we wanted to give her a special treat this year.  I came up with elaborate  ideas, all of which, she rejected.  She asked to have friends come over for the day.  She was thrilled when dad and I told her she could have them spend the night.  We’ve opted out of sleepovers for the children.  This seemed like the perfect opportunity for a first for Rose, sweet fun.

We decided to have Rose’s party prior to her birthday and Lent.  We wanted her and her friends to go all out.  It would be a “Fat-Tuesday Weekend.”

We attended first Saturday Mass and Sodality/Little Flowers.  Then we loaded the girls up in the two getaway vehicles. 

The Sodality of the Blessed Virgin Mary, or the The Congregation of the Children of Mary, has for its object to assemble its members at the feet of the Mother of God, to dedicate them in a very special manner to the veneration and service of the Blessed Virgin, and to place them under her particular patronage and protection both in life and at the hour of death.

A person truly devout to Mary will be enrolled in her Sodality; will celebrate her feasts very piously; will wear her scapular and medal; will venerate her images and visit her shrines; will love to read books on her life and virtues, and will endeavor throughout the year, but especially in May, to imitate her example. Certainly, a girl, a woman, cannot be said to have a true devotion to the Mother of God unless she honors and invokes her by frequent and fervent prayers. ~ Father Lasance, Catholic Girl’s Guide

16th bday party

The girls had a blessed time together.  They had wholesome girl fun together, outdoors, without any technology.  It was refreshing to witness 10 girls, ages 15-18, enjoying each other’s company – being in the world but far removed from being of the world.  We gave thanks to God for blessing Rose with beautiful friends, inside & out.

Your innocence guard with the utmost care—
Once lost, there is nought that loss can repair.
How sweet the fragrance it sheds around—
No flower more fair on earth can be found.

~ Father Lasance, Catholic Girl’s Guide

 

girlfriends

True friends seek to promote the good and happiness of each other. ~ Father Lasance, Catholic Girl’s Guide

friends JOY 
What friendship out to be, for it ought to be pure and true, like gold and precious stones. ~ Father Lasance, Catholic Girl’s Guide

Pax Christi,

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Hi! I'm Lena, mama of JOYfilledfamily.
We are a traditional Catholic family striving to live for Jesus Christ in everything we do. We pray to completely surrender our will to His and to become His servants. Our mission of this blog is to share our JOY.

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