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Exaltation of the Holy Cross

September 14, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Exaltation of the Holy Cross

O Crux, ave spes unica!

“How splendid the cross of Christ! It brings life, not death; light, not darkness; Paradise, not its loss. It is the wood on which the Lord, like a great warrior, was wounded in hands and feet and side, but healed thereby our wounds. A tree has destroyed us, a tree now brought us life.”

~Theodore of Studios

Finding of the True Cross

THE EXALTATION OF THE HOLY CROSS

Traditional & New Calendar – September 14

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This feast commemorates both the dedication of the basilica built by Constantine for the Holy Sepulcher, and also the return of the True Cross to Jerusalem by Emperor Heraclius of Judea during the seventh century. After Heraclius had recovered it by force from King Chosroes of Persia, he tried to carry it along the Via Dolorosa to Calvary, but was unable to make any headway. Bishop Zachary of Jerusalem, pointing to his luxurious clothing, said, “Attired in these rich robes, you are far from imitating the poverty of Jesus Christ and His humility in bearing His Cross.” The Emperor caught the hint–and went on to Calvary barefooted and wearing a simple cloak, carried the holy Cross to the Basilica on Calvary [A.D. 629].

INTROIT Gal. 6:14But it is fitting that we should glory in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, in whom is salvation, life, and resurrection for us, by whom we are saved and delivered.

Ps. 66:2. May God have mercy on us and bless us; may He let His face shine upon us; and may He have mercy upon us.
V. Glory be . . .

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On the Cross human misery and divine mercy meet.  The adoration of this unlimited mercy is for man the only way to open himself to the mystery which the Cross reveals.

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SHORT INSTRUCTION ON THE WAY OF THE CROSS

What is meant by the Way of the Cross
The Way of the Cross is a devotion, approved by the Pope, by which we meditate upon the passion and death of Christ, and especially upon His last way of sorrow to Mount Calvary.

How did this devotion originate?
The pathway which our Lord Jesus Christ had to follow from Jerusalem to Mount Calvary, was the real Way of the Cross. His holy Mother, and other pious women, as also the beloved disciple St. John, followed Him on this painful journey;  (Matt, XXVII. 56. John XIX. 25, 26.) and the apostles and early Christians animated by veneration for these places, made sacred by the sufferings and death of Jesus, often traversed the same pathway. In the same spirit, in later times, many came from the most distant countries to Jerusalem to visit these sacred places to increase their devotion. In time, pictures, representing different scenes of the sufferings of our Lord, were erected along this route, and were called Stations; when the Saracens conquered the Holy Land, in consequence of which visits to it became dangerous, almost impossible, the Roman pontiffs permitted the erection of stations of the cross in other countries. The first to erect stations in their churches were members of the Franciscan Order, and by degrees this devotion, supported by the Roman pontiffs and favored by indulgences, spread throughout the entire Church. A pathway was sought which led to elevated ground; this elevation was called the Mount of the Cross or Mount Calvary, and along the route pictures representing our Lord’s sufferings, as related by the evangelists, or made known by tradition, were erected, or else the pictures were hung in churches, and the place where they stood, or the pictures themselves, were called stations; of these there are fourteen.
Is the practice of this devotion of the Way of the Cross of great value?
Next to the holy Sacrifice of the Mass, and holy Communion, there is certainly no devotion which represents better to us the sufferings and death of Christ than the Way of the Cross. St. Albertus Magnus says: “A simple remembrance of Christ’s sufferings is worth more than fasting on bread and water every Friday for a year, and scourging one’s self unto blood.” St. Bernard gives us the reason of this, when he says: “Who can consider the sufferings of Christ and be so void of religion as to remain untouched; so proud that he will not humble himself; so vindictive that he will not forgive; so fond of pleasure that he will not abstain from it; so hard-hearted that he will not repent of his sins?” And St. Augustine says: “What pride, what avarice, what anger can be cured otherwise than by the humility, the poverty, the patience of the Son of God? All these virtues are found in carefully meditating on that way of pain which our Saviour went, and along which we should follow Him.” On this account several of the Popes, among others Clement XII. and Benedict XIV., have granted many indulgences to the  performance of this devotion; indulgences which may be applied to the suffering souls in purgatory.

~Rev. Fr. Leonard Goffine’s The Church’s Year

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The Exaltation of the Holy Cross

LOVE AND THE CROSS

The Church proposes that we consider the penitential aspect of our lives one day each week – on Fridays – by reflecting on the Passion of Christ. On this day, many Christians consider with greater care the sorrowful mys­teries of Christ’s life, or they accompany him on the Way of the Cross, or they read or meditate on his Passion.  It is a good day to examine more carefully how we habitually bear contradictions and the generosity – fruit of love with which we seek out voluntary mortifications in little things; or how we struggle against our selfishness, laziness or the desire to be well thought of, to be the centre of attention. Other points for examination might include the small mortifications that make the lives of others more enjoyable; being cordial in our dealings with others; not giving into bad moods that perhaps will lead to brusque manners; smiling when we tend to be more serious; being punctual in our work or studies; eating a little less of what we like most or a little more of what we like least; not eat ing between meals; keeping our desk, wardrobe or room neat and orderly; not giving in to curiosity; guarding our senses with refinement; not complaining about excessive heat or cold or heavy traffic…

~Fr. Francis Fernandez In Conversation with God

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Suggestions for Family Activities

Women for Faith and Family

  • If possible attend Mass together. Consider taking your family to a church that has especially fine Stations of the Cross. Look at the images and explain their meaning. At each Station pray, “We adore thee, O Christ, and we bless thee, for by thy Cross thou hast redeemed the world”. At the end, have the children kneel before the Blessed Sacrament and say a Hail Mary, an Our Father, and a Glory be.
  • Make the evening meal today more festive than ordinary — light candles on the table or use the good dishes.
  • Read one or more of the prayers or scripture readings for the day before the evening meal. Older children could take turns doing the readings.
  • Begin teaching even the very youngest members of the family to make the Sign of the Cross at the end of the mealtime prayers. (Older brothers and sisters usually will be very glad to help the baby with this.)
  • Explain to children the meaning of the Sign of the Cross that we make before meals, and point out how this action is intended to unite every one of us with Jesus’ sacrifice for us — His crucifixion and His resurrection from the dead.
  • Make a point of mentioning how great is God’s loves for us. Encourage children to memorize John 3:16. This is a key verse about the triumph of Jesus’ sacrifice on the Cross, and encourages children to revere and respect God’s word in the Bible. Give a small reward or privilege to each child who memorizes the verse. Have them recite it for you when they say their bedtime prayers.
  • Two suggestions:
    — Have grade-school-age children write the verse in their fanciest writing and illustrate it with a drawing of Jesus on the Cross. Even little people think a lot when they are drawing something. Maybe you could set a crucifix on the table for them to look at when they draw it. (Don’t forget to display the results on the refrigerator — or maybe send it to grandma.)
    — Frost a sheet cake with white icing, and make a large Cross on the cake with red icing, and pipe “John 3:16” on the Cross. Let the children help decorate the cake further by sprinkling it with silver dragees or colored sprinkles.
  • If there are crucifixes in the children’s rooms, make sure to call attention to it at bedtime prayers. If not, today would be a very good time to get them.

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Resources:

  • Exaltation of the Glorious Cross – Vultus Christi
  • Good News and the Exaltation of the Holy Cross – Audio Sancto
  • Exaltation of the Cross – Fish Eaters
  • Exaltation of the Holy Cross Novena
  • Exaltation of the Holy Cross Holy Card
  • Exaltation of the Cross and Basil – Fr. Z
  • Prayer Before a Crucifix

Coloring Pages & Crafts:

  • Where is the Cross of Jesus?
  • Searching for the Cross of Jesus? – Gr 2-3
  • Craft for the Exaltation of the Holy Cross
  • Homemade Cross

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“Lord Jesus, I have received the cross, I have received it from Thy hand: and I will bear it until death, as Thou hast laid it upon me. indeed the life of a good religious man is a cross, but it is cross that conducts him to Paradise.” ~Imitation of Christ, Bk 3

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Hail, O Cross, our only hope!

 

{pretty, happy, funny, real} zoo edition

September 9, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: {phfr}, Picture Recap, Summer

{pretty, happy, funny, real}

~ Capturing the context of contentment in everyday life ~
Every Thursday, here at Like Mother, Like Daughter!

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We visited the zoo at the end of August.  We couldn’t resist, the price was right–FREE!

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It was Dragonfly’s first trip to the local zoo.  He nearly leaped out of his seat when he saw the first animal.

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Papi was our tour guide for half of the day.  He definitely kept things interesting.

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Papi could be found on Dad’s shoulders for the other half of the day.

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Rose and I enjoyed our time together when Dad would go ahead with the Little’s.

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We were able to treat the kids to some rides at the nearby amusement park since our zoo entrance was free.

It was a splendid day and wonderful way to enter the new school session.  DEO GRATIAS!

Mary, Mother of God ~ Cheerfulness

September 6, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: 01 January Saints, Little Flowers, Marian, Mary's Birthday, Wreath III

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We kicked off a new year of Little Flowers on the First Saturday.  We now have 35 Little Flowers!  Praise God!

We are on Wreath III and I decided to focus on Mary, Mother of God and Cheerfulness for the first meeting.  We had a Marian Birthday Party.

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The girls were delighted to come together for such a glorious celebration shared with Mass and friends.

Marian Birthday

Marian Birthday Menu: inspiration was found at Catholic Cuisine

  • Bake Blueberry French Toast
  • Cream cheese Lily Rolls
  • Marian Snack Mix
  • Fruit
  • Mary’s Prayer – Blue Chocolate Dipped Pretzels
  • Dried Blueberries
  • Mary Cookies
  • Cheer Sticks – Veggie Straws
  • Blue Drinks

Mary, Mother of God

I invited the girls to share what they knew about the Blessed Virgin.  We honed in on her cheerfulness in all situations.

We spoke of times when the girls have been cheerful and times when their cheerfulness was lacking. Then we identified what a non-cheerful “Yes” sounds like vs. a cheerful “Yes.”  The girls enjoyed proclaiming a “Yes” like Mary.

The girls also generated a list of words or phrases that could be said to cheer someone else up.

  • Cheer up!
  • Be happy!
  • I Love You!
  • Smile!
  • Be Joyful!
  • Jesus Loves You!

Cheer Card for a FriendA friend gave Sparkles this cheer card.

The talk on cheerfulness led us to our crafts.  The girls created Cheer Cards, cards that they could give to someone else in need of a smile.

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The girls also created a Mary, Mother of God journal.  I encouraged them to use their journal to record their cheerfulness, pray intentions, post their holy cards, and other spiritual practices.Mary Mother of God journal

We closed the meeting with the Rosary.  Unfortunately, we were a bit short on time and could only pray an Our Father, Hail Mary and Glory Be.  We prayed for an increase in cheerfulness and and the intentions of the Blessed Mother.cupcake rosary

The girls brought up their flower for Mary and ate a Hail Mary cupcake.

May we be cheerful like Our Blessed Mother.

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Mary, Mother of God

January 1

Ave - Holy Mary Mother of God

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Handouts: (in order)

  • Cheerfulness Divider SheetJesus with Mother Mary
  • Cheerfulness Activity Sheet
  • Mary, Mother of God Coloring Page – Waltzing Matilda
    • Holy Name of Mary
    • Sorrowful Mother – Sept. 15
    • Our Lady of the Rosary – Oct. 7
  • Mary, Mother of God Bio for Kids – Holy Spirit Interactive
  • Cheerfulness Memory Verse
  • Mary Mother of God & Cheerfulness Info – Shower of Roses

Resources:

  • Mystery of the Mother of God – AudioSancto
  • Meditation on the Birthday of the Blessed Virgin Mary – Dayton
  • Marian Prayers – EWTN
  • Little Crown of the Blessed Virgin Mary – Fish Eaters
  • The Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary – WFF
  • Marian Meditations & Reflections – Dayton
  • Marian Dishes & Treats – Catholic Cuisine
  • Food for Marian Feast Days – Catholic Icing
  • Mary Art Project – Catholic Icing

 

 

Mater Dei, ora pro nobis.

Blessed Teresa of Calcutta

September 4, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: 09 September, 09 September Saints, Blessed Mother Teresa, Mother Teresa of Calcutta 1 Comment

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The liturgical celebration of Blessed Teresa on 5 September is observed by the Missionaries of Charity as a “feast”; for all others the celebration is observed as an “optional memorial”.

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  • Simple Celebration for Bl. Mother Teresa
  • Novena to Blessed Mother Teresa
  • Missionaries of Charity – Charity Litany
  • Printable Prayer Card – Lord, Make Me a Channel of Your Peace
  • Coloring Page 1– Waltzing Matilda
  • Coloring Page 2 – Waltzing Matilda
  • Children’s Embroidery Pattern – Waltzing Matilda
  • Paper Doll – Paper dali
  • All Saints’ Day –Mother Teresa – Blossoming Joy
  • Food Ideas & Crafts – Family at the Foot of the Cross
  • Mother Teresa Tea – Catholic Cuisine
  • Mother Teresa You Tube
  • Mother Teresa’s Commencement Address and Press Conference, delivered at Thomas Aquinas College in June of 1982.
  • Centenary Reflections & More Mother Teresa Resources

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Blessed Teresa of Calcutta, you showed us the beauty of a life lived in and for love and you never stop reminding us that we are all “created for greater things, to love and be loved." Help us to live, like you, a life of love that is worthy of our calling as children of God. Amen.

Prayers Requested

August 31, 2011 by Lena {JOYfilledfamily} Filed Under: Prayers 2 Comments

The following prayer request was sent to me today.  I pass it on to you in charity and trust that you will storm heaven for this dear family.
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“Then were little children presented to Him, that he should impose hands upon them and pray.  And the disciples rebuked them.  But Jesus said to them:
Suffer the little children to come and forbid them not to come to me; for the kingdom of heaven is for such.”   Matt. 19:13-14.

The Harder family has suffered a devastating loss in that two of John and Janice Harder’s six children died yesterday in a tragic boating accident in Montana.  The boys, John Anthony and Joseph Thaddeus, aged 8 and 4 respectively, were their only boys and were unable to survive the frigid conditions of the water where they were capsized and remained for several hours.  A third child, Cecilia Rose, was given CPR and a faint pulse was detected.  She has been upgraded from intensive care and looks to be pulling through.  Her patron, St. Rose of Lima, whose feast was yesterday, is most assuredly watching over her 

…This tragedy has devastated the family and has left the boys’ parents disconsolate, even while they recover from their own injuries. 

Our Faith tells us that these beautiful boys are in heaven as it was made “for such”.   Of course, we should always pray for the repose of their souls, but given their young age and innocence, we can be assured of their salvation.  However, those left behind are in great need of our prayers and support.  Please pray for John and Janice and their four young girls who must face a home with an empty room and a lifetime of bittersweet memories.  They cannot but be buoyed by your prayers and support. 

An account is being opened in the family’s name to help defer the medical and funeral expenses.  It is not clear whether the family had sufficient insurance to cover such a catastrophe which necessitated two or three life flights and hospital stays in two different hospitals in two different States.  In addition, a young family does not expect funeral expenses and no contingency plans were made in that regard.  Any amount you can afford will be most appreciated by the family. 


If you are able please send what you can {email me at JOYfilledfamily*dot*com for the contact info to donate to the family}.  

Thank you for your prayers and good wishes.

—Update—
Two children drown in Big Horn Lake

Storm claims two lives on Big Horn Lake

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Hi! I'm Lena, mama of JOYfilledfamily.
We are a traditional Catholic family striving to live for Jesus Christ in everything we do. We pray to completely surrender our will to His and to become His servants. Our mission of this blog is to share our JOY.

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